"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Kiss!

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Noob_Lee

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I have read the bible etc and I can get a girl attracted.

But I just don't no how to initiate the kiss.

I don't have the balls to go for the kiss.

How can I fix this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ease

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im also interested in improving this area of my game

any material on this?
 
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Lexington

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There is no such thing as a perfect moment to initiate a kiss. You'll know if she's into you. Start out with kino first. If she's comfortable with it, it's a green light. I like to wait for a moment after we share a laugh. Then, just look her right in the eye and go in with confidence.

I used to be a chicken sh*t about kisses too. I used to think you had to wait for the exact right moment like in the movies or she'd reject it. The truth is, if she's into you, she'll accept the kiss whenever. If she's not into you, no matter how smooth you are with it, she'll reject it.

Don't try and sneak it in there. When I was very nervous about going for the kiss close, I'd do it very abruptly and suddenly. Go in there with confidence and make your intentions very clear....lean in and look her right in the eye as you go for it.
 
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Pathgen

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just gotta do it, its like jumping in a lake. If the water is cold its gonna be a ***** but once your inside the hard part is over. First time i did it she started a pillow fight and in the middle of it i kissed her. No magic solution just need to get over that hump and not be worried about rejection
 
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