"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bingo-Player

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i was speaking to a female friend in the gym the other day I'm not really attracted to her and comfortable enough around her to openly talk about sex plus she's bisexual so offers scope from all angles so i enjoy picking her brains

anyway she was talking about the differences she sees when it comes to men and women wanting and getting sex

she said men are far too direct , far too crass and far too expectant of women to provide sex in the ver y early stages ....she feels like men are only interested in how quickly they can get sex from her and to be quite honest I'm guilty of doing this too

she said mentally women turn her on so much more than men because they disguise there intentions so well , she gets turned on by this by not knowing what could happen next , she did agree however that no woman could ever offer the sexual physical presence a man could

so i guess in conclusion if you to f@ck as many women as possible in life you need to think like one.....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i was speaking to a female friend in the gym the other day I'm not really attracted to her and comfortable enough around her to openly talk about sex plus she's bisexual so offers scope from all angles so i enjoy picking her brains

anyway she was talking about the differences she sees when it comes to men and women wanting and getting sex

she said men are far too direct , far too crass and far too expectant of women to provide sex in the ver y early stages ....she feels like men are only interested in how quickly they can get sex from her and to be quite honest I'm guilty of doing this too

she said mentally women turn her on so much more than men because they disguise there intentions so well , she gets turned on by this by not knowing what could happen next , she did agree however that no woman could ever offer the sexual physical presence a man could

so i guess in conclusion if you to f@ck as many women as possible in life you need to think like one.....
She likes to play games I guess. Well all women like the game. So play and win.
 

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Most women "disguise" their intentions because they're too shy to approach or express them.

I don't see why a man should think like a woman. As you think so you are. If you think like a woman, you're more likely to act like one.
 

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Most women "disguise" their intentions because they're too shy to approach it express them.

I don't see why a man should think like a woman. As you think so you are. If you think like a woman, you're more likely to act like one.
i think you underestimate how many women actually wonder over to the other side

im not saying become a woman im simply saying mentally women are more attracted to the way women think than they are men

how you choose to use that knowledge is up to you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Direct's always worked better for me. Friend/hell zone is still a real danger. And that's totally useless as most woman don't want male friends they want orbiters. Qualifying and push pull I agree with as meeting women's need for games. But don't do it in OLD world or via texting - easily misconstrued and they crack out. I still think ph is best for asking them out. Women will have a reaction to an attractive male voice. But of course I'm dating women in their 30s or 40s. Hopefully they're too damn busy to play message ping pong. I suspect texting does help in their 20s.
 
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