"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i was speaking to a female friend in the gym the other day I'm not really attracted to her and comfortable enough around her to openly talk about sex plus she's bisexual so offers scope from all angles so i enjoy picking her brains

anyway she was talking about the differences she sees when it comes to men and women wanting and getting sex

she said men are far too direct , far too crass and far too expectant of women to provide sex in the ver y early stages ....she feels like men are only interested in how quickly they can get sex from her and to be quite honest I'm guilty of doing this too

she said mentally women turn her on so much more than men because they disguise there intentions so well , she gets turned on by this by not knowing what could happen next , she did agree however that no woman could ever offer the sexual physical presence a man could

so i guess in conclusion if you to f@ck as many women as possible in life you need to think like one.....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i was speaking to a female friend in the gym the other day I'm not really attracted to her and comfortable enough around her to openly talk about sex plus she's bisexual so offers scope from all angles so i enjoy picking her brains

anyway she was talking about the differences she sees when it comes to men and women wanting and getting sex

she said men are far too direct , far too crass and far too expectant of women to provide sex in the ver y early stages ....she feels like men are only interested in how quickly they can get sex from her and to be quite honest I'm guilty of doing this too

she said mentally women turn her on so much more than men because they disguise there intentions so well , she gets turned on by this by not knowing what could happen next , she did agree however that no woman could ever offer the sexual physical presence a man could

so i guess in conclusion if you to f@ck as many women as possible in life you need to think like one.....
She likes to play games I guess. Well all women like the game. So play and win.
 

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Most women "disguise" their intentions because they're too shy to approach or express them.

I don't see why a man should think like a woman. As you think so you are. If you think like a woman, you're more likely to act like one.
 

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Most women "disguise" their intentions because they're too shy to approach it express them.

I don't see why a man should think like a woman. As you think so you are. If you think like a woman, you're more likely to act like one.
i think you underestimate how many women actually wonder over to the other side

im not saying become a woman im simply saying mentally women are more attracted to the way women think than they are men

how you choose to use that knowledge is up to you
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Direct's always worked better for me. Friend/hell zone is still a real danger. And that's totally useless as most woman don't want male friends they want orbiters. Qualifying and push pull I agree with as meeting women's need for games. But don't do it in OLD world or via texting - easily misconstrued and they crack out. I still think ph is best for asking them out. Women will have a reaction to an attractive male voice. But of course I'm dating women in their 30s or 40s. Hopefully they're too damn busy to play message ping pong. I suspect texting does help in their 20s.
 
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