"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The key to generic beauty

TooColdUlrick

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Dirtheart, your personal before/after is quite shocking too. why don't you post it again to lend more support to what you're saying.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJDamage

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Dj Dork I only gave an example using Rosie O'Donell looks and using that as saying hyperthetically speaking if she was sweetest human being, would she still be better looking then Carmen Electra who hyperthetically is a evil human being?? and the answer is of coarse no.

What I really Think of Rosie O'Donnell? I don't think she is so horribaly ugly but rather really fat and unattractive and I would give her from 1-10 a rating of 3. I heard her loud mouth ranting on T.V and I wouldn't be able to stand next to her more then 2 mins.

As for Carmen I think she is a very beautiful woman but she has no personality whats so over and she seems shallow and spoiled. She is the type of woman who loves the badboy and she doesn't need to speek or contribute anything cause her body does the talking. Beside's who in their right mind would date Dennis "The Worm" Rodman??????
 

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TooColdUlrick: It shocks even me sometimes just to think how I used to look. :) Anyway, on your suggestion I've included the pictures here:


Me 8-9 years ago:
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-pig.jpg
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-geek.jpg


Me now:
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...29135&imageID=17089979&Mytoken=20040810091406
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...29135&imageID=14139184&Mytoken=20040810091406

I think most people will agree it's an improvement. The most drastic change came from losing such a lot of weight and working out, but the rest is mostly superficial. I covered a lot of my opinions about image and various tips that I've used in this thread for those who are interested:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=53635
 

TooColdUlrick

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Originally posted by Dirtheart
TooColdUlrick: It shocks even me sometimes just to think how I used to look. :) Anyway, on your suggestion I've included the pictures here:


Me 8-9 years ago:
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-pig.jpg
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-geek.jpg


Me now:
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...29135&imageID=17089979&Mytoken=20040810091406
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...29135&imageID=14139184&Mytoken=20040810091406

I think most people will agree it's an improvement. The most drastic change came from losing such a lot of weight and working out, but the rest is mostly superficial. I covered a lot of my opinions about image and various tips that I've used in this thread for those who are interested:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=53635
i'm telling 'ya, kudos bro...you could be THE poster boy for major transformation!

would be DJ's take note. Dirtheart is an official expert on this!
 

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Rodman's the ultimate bad boy and he doesn't give a ****...besides his wierd ass style i think he coudl have any girl he wants. Who knows, maybe that helps him because he's so confident to rock it like that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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