TooColdUlrick
Master Don Juan
Dirtheart, your personal before/after is quite shocking too. why don't you post it again to lend more support to what you're saying.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i'm telling 'ya, kudos bro...you could be THE poster boy for major transformation!Originally posted by Dirtheart
TooColdUlrick: It shocks even me sometimes just to think how I used to look.Anyway, on your suggestion I've included the pictures here:
Me 8-9 years ago:
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-pig.jpg
http://www.wade.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk/miscstuff/Dan-geek.jpg
Me now:
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...29135&imageID=17089979&Mytoken=20040810091406
http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...29135&imageID=14139184&Mytoken=20040810091406
I think most people will agree it's an improvement. The most drastic change came from losing such a lot of weight and working out, but the rest is mostly superficial. I covered a lot of my opinions about image and various tips that I've used in this thread for those who are interested:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=53635
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.