"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The key is to be HAPPY with what you do

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just be happy with yourself.

do what makes you a happier person..period.


its that simple..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I enjoy being used by women and being an AFC... but I am sad because when I let women use me, and when I act like an AFC, I don't get what makes me happy.

How can I overcome this paradox?
 
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Friv I agree with you 100%

I did a lot of stuff that made a lot of my friends leave me, but I am much happier being my own man.

Good tip.

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PS Flippinfreak just leave you already admitted to being a troll. Use some self-restraint.
 
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flippinfreak said:
I enjoy being used by women and being an AFC... but I am sad because when I let women use me, and when I act like an AFC, I don't get what makes me happy.

How can I overcome this paradox?
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That sounds like an internal battle to me...ask yourself WHY you enjoy being an AFC and getting used by women??
 
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I'm saying that the key is not to be happy with yourself. If you do what makes you a happier person, than you just may well be the most evil person alive.

Say I enjoyed limiting the number of males on the planet, because it made me happy to know I had a better chance. Perhaps my girl is trying to make me jealous by staring at another guy, when she is not staring at him, it makes me happy. If in both cases I was happy MURDERING the guy, and it made me happier, and I had no remorse after words, happy as well that I am not going to get caught...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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