"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KarmaSutra said:
A-motherfvckin'-men.

She is. I'm not the easiest guy in the world to get close to. She taught me how important it is to let dumbsh!t go, instead of harboring it to fester in my brain.

Seriously, I only wish for the rest of you guys to find a mate as compatible with you as I have. One who compliments your strengths and helps you grow above your weak points.

How about a pic?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you an idiot?

Click on my moniker.

Yeah I see the pic is there. Why in the hell would I have clicked on your moniker before? Like I give a damn enough to click on you.
 

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Haha Big Man is exploding with anger because as the self-proclaimed president of Republic of Karma-Sutra, he's blissfully happy and couldn't give a damn about what Internet junkies think about him. Except that our worthless opinions make his jaw clenched. zuhaha :D

Tell me Sue Madre, are you an idiot ?
 

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Haha Big Man is exploding with anger because as the self-proclaimed president of Republic of Karma-Sutra, he's blissfully happy and couldn't give a damn about what Internet junkies think about him. Except that our worthless opinions make his jaw clenched. zuhaha :D

Tell me Sue Madre, are you an idiot ?

Yeah I'm an idiot. An idiot for thinking his woman would be hot.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Boilermaker said:
Haha Big Man is exploding with anger because as the self-proclaimed president of Republic of Karma-Sutra, he's blissfully happy and couldn't give a damn about what Internet junkies think about him. Except that our worthless opinions make his jaw clenched. zuhaha :D
Kids. Nothing but runaway ego.

Tell me Sue Madre, are you an idiot ?
Seems to have been answered.
 

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Yo Karma,



We go a long way back, soldier. On "So Suave" and off "So Suave". Using our online personas and without using these online personas.

A lot of us "Vets" have been on many missions together that have made us "think", have made us "argue", have made us "laugh", and most of all-----------have made us GROW. We been in this battle long before we were ever privileged to meet up with some of the cool new brothers (and sisters) that are now part of the current So Suave Army.

So I just wanna go on record by saying: "Whatever makes you happy makes ME happy, my brother."

In other words...

If you get married, I'm down with you.

If you wanna stay single, I'm down with you.

If you wanna get divorced, I'm down with you.

If you wanna embark on a crazy-assed plan for World Domination, I'm still down with ya', bro'. Cuz' I know AT LEAST that that shyt WON'T be boring...lol.

Point Blank: I'm yo' Mother Fukker for life, dude.:rockon:


Much RESPECT to you as always, Commander Karma.


VU
 

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Hey Karma, congrats Brother!

I'm with Victory on this one as well. Have faith and trust you know what you are doing..and if it's 'right', it's right.

Cheers man, tip the glass of scotch for me, and wish I could join ya with a cigar to celebrate.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
IQQI, expect irony to be lost on you, and you never disappoint.
Shut up, Stupid.



Karma, because I am "abrasive" I believe I have been called, I will lay out my 2cents. I think you are moving too fast. Have you even been divorced a year, yet? Are you doing this in part to prove to your ex that you are better off without her? As in, the best revenge is living well. Are you doing this to prove something to yourself? Just some questions to ponder.

I always have a hard time taking someone seriously when they are deciding to make vows that they just broke.

I think divorce is a traumatic experience, and you are acting in a way that is uncharacteristic and not in line with your normal viewpoints.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Not unless you believe yourself to be said lonely, spiteful douche.



I don't give a flying fvck about a random typed response on a forum. I'm not dependent on the whim of anyone's opinion but my own and those I trust.
I'm random? Okay, Karma. :rolleyes:



The choice I made is mine to own. I'm not parlaying responsibility for my life on what you people think I should do or think.
Since this is an open forum and you're not just talking to your closest friends within an earshot (You might have a better time giving them this info and leaving us "randoms" out of it) of course you're going to get some questions. It's not the end of the world if "random" people here think you might be moving too fast.



My own idea of a Love Lease and Marriage have the exact principle to apply as a couple. The legal ramifications won't have any burden on our decisions as life-mates. You know why?

WE FVCKING COMMUNICATE WITH EACH OTHER ABOUT EVERY MAJOR DECISION THAT WILL IMPACT OUR LIVES.

So why get married again?

Your basing your ASSumptions on a persona I have. It's one aspect of my personality you see here. I wear various facades and societal masks depending on the situation.
Don't talk at me like I just joined this site yesterday, dude. Jesus. I've seen what you've wrote in the past and I'm just trying to understand the contradictions here. Not saying your completely wrong or stupid. It's just overall a risky move for anyone to get married.

Calm down already. You're being overly sensitive about this, like I and everyone else here wants your marriage to fail...:rolleyes:


I forgot to say good luck.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Calm down already. You're being overly sensitive about this, like I and everyone else here wants your marriage to fail...
I don't think anybody here wants his marriage to fail. I have nothing but good wishes for Karma and I think most people here do as well.

I just find it difficult to understand (and accept) how a well established member of this forum who's been here for a couple years can fall for the trap. It's not like Karma is some newbie who wants to hurt himself because he got friendzoned by his oneitis. Karma knows full well how women work and I think he has a great grasp of the game.

I guess it's the feeling of how easily even well established members of this community can fall for the trap even though you would think they have a good grasp of the matrix and wouldn't fall for something like european style marriage.

It would be like big jimbo all of a sudden announcing he's marrying an american woman. I would wish him the best as well but I couldn't help but think to myself how someone with his knowledge of women and with his history could still fall for the trap.
 

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iqqi said:
Shut up, Stupid.



Karma, because I am "abrasive" I believe I have been called, I will lay out my 2cents. I think you are moving too fast. Have you even been divorced a year, yet? Are you doing this in part to prove to your ex that you are better off without her? As in, the best revenge is living well. Are you doing this to prove something to yourself? Just some questions to ponder.

I always have a hard time taking someone seriously when they are deciding to make vows that they just broke.

I think divorce is a traumatic experience, and you are acting in a way that is uncharacteristic and not in line with your normal viewpoints.
I've been divorced since May of 2005.

Moving too fast? Hardly. I've dated more women in the last 6 years than most men will in a lifetime.

All of those experiences lent a hand in my maturation process. So did most of you. I've walked away from some really terrific women.

They weren't what I want in a long-term mate. Now I've found one. Now I've found one I appreciate enough to include in my life.
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Yo Karma,



We go a long way back, soldier. On "So Suave" and off "So Suave". Using our online personas and without using these online personas.

A lot of us "Vets" have been on many missions together that have made us "think", have made us "argue", have made us "laugh", and most of all-----------have made us GROW. We been in this battle long before we were ever privileged to meet up with some of the cool new brothers (and sisters) that are now part of the current So Suave Army.

So I just wanna go on record by saying: "Whatever makes you happy makes ME happy, my brother."

In other words...

If you get married, I'm down with you.

If you wanna stay single, I'm down with you.

If you wanna get divorced, I'm down with you.

If you wanna embark on a crazy-assed plan for World Domination, I'm still down with ya', bro'. Cuz' I know AT LEAST that that shyt WON'T be boring...lol.

Point Blank: I'm yo' Mother Fukker for life, dude.:rockon:


Much RESPECT to you as always, Commander Karma.


VU
You ARE my Brother. Though we have miles between us, I respect you and I appreciate everything you, my mentor, have brought to my life.

I will never have enough thank you's to share.
 

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I'm random? Okay, Karma. :rolleyes:

You're not random.

I appreciate your concern Brother. I truly do. You and I have spoken in real life and I listened to what you have to say.

I apologize for my abruptness towards you. It was unwarranted and I'm sorry.


Thanks for the luck.
 

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f283000 said:
I don't think anybody here wants his marriage to fail. I have nothing but good wishes for Karma and I think most people here do as well.

I just find it difficult to understand (and accept) how a well established member of this forum who's been here for a couple years can fall for the trap. It's not like Karma is some newbie who wants to hurt himself because he got friendzoned by his oneitis. Karma knows full well how women work and I think he has a great grasp of the game.

I guess it's the feeling of how easily even well established members of this community can fall for the trap even though you would think they have a good grasp of the matrix and wouldn't fall for something like european style marriage.

It would be like big jimbo all of a sudden announcing he's marrying an american woman. I would wish him the best as well but I couldn't help but think to myself how someone with his knowledge of women and with his history could still fall for the trap.
I understand everyone's concern. I truly believe I've found a woman who's worthy of my dedication.

Is marriage a trap? If your mentality is such that being alone for eternity is bliss, then I suppose it is.

Mine used to be. It's not. Men grow and change their perspectives on any number of potential life decisions.

Is smoking cigars detrimental to my health? Possibly. Does it stop me from smoking them everyday? Fvck no. I do it because I gain clarity from the time I light it, to the time I flick it off my fingers. It's the same with my woman. She compliments the very best parts of my personality, and helps me to engage those parts I have issues with.

Very rare a woman as she. Determined, strong-willed, decisive, well-mannered, smart, hot, thoughtful; there are many an adjective I can use to describe her.

The only one that matters is that I love her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I look forward to the next roundtable, whenever wherever it may be. I will not be absent.
 

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For you guys who are down on Karma for getting engaged, STFU. The guy made his choice, is content and happy with it. Wish them the best.

I swear, some folks on this site are so fvckin negative, even during a wonderous moment I can't believe it.

May your marriage always have some rockin' mojo Karma.
 

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First: congratulations are in order.

Marriages can be sucessful. When you go in to one eyes open and aware of how it all works, you have a pretty good chance of making it work.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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