"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The joy of experience

jonny football hero

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Right. I know this board is here for us "old-hands" to help you new guys, but i am going to give you all a hand.

There is no substitute for real experience we can give you all the advice humanly possible, but when you see HB and try to talk to her, it all goes out the window and you can't remeber any of it. Why? because you haven't done it enough! Only by continually approaching can you know what to say next. What to do next. There should be no fear in approaching women!, they WANT to be talked to! That hot shop assistant has had only people asking her "what size are these trousers?" all day, she would kill for some stimulating conversation. If she seems like she doesn't want to talk, so what? leave her. You're hardly ever likely to see her again are you?.

My advice would be to get out there and approach as many women as you can. Don't try to get numbers straightaway, just take it in little steps. Hope this helps.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jerky Boi

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I've been thinking about this a lot lately too. Some people think that you have to rely on everything you've learned on this site to succeed, but that's not necessarily true. You have to go out and DO something. Get out there and talk to women and improve.
 

Supero Masculus

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Well said. It holds more truth in those paragraphs then some of the HUGE post that take far to long to read to get less of the point across. Awsome.
 

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lol. nice post man.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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InsidiousNstinct

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In other words....GET' ER DONE:cool:
 
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