suavedave
Senior Don Juan
Ok, I was going to respond to a particular post but I know there are endless guys here that need advice on beginning approaches. I will expand on this if the desire is there.
Hey man,
I'm very sorry to read this POST. Fvck, I'm in a situation where I would love to be in your shoes and and the opportunity to do cold approaches. You don't seem to get it and seem to be making Excuses for not doing cold approaches.
COLD APPROACHES are fun and exciting! There is a barrier that a A lot (and in fact most of you guys have) with cold approaches; it's a barrier that once you get over, you will have more Fun than you can imagine. It's fun and Exciting to go up to a random chick, open her and see how good you are at going from Just meeting her cold to talking, to changing places with her, to touching her and then finally fvucking her/ smelling her.
Once you get the TASTE of ***** you will NOT TURN Back. What I mean is that it's like a drug, a magic potion that turns you into an Animal. Once that happens there will be no fear or thought involved in doing approaches because your biologic drive kicks in and you Just DO IT.
It's just a matter of Desire. I wrote about this elsewhere as I was not doing approaches at All until I met a Very fine and sexy japanese girl. I told myself that I just Had to figure out how to put a girl like her in bed and, so after I saw her/said something I immediately went back and started doing research into this stuff.
I currently have more experience in the field / doing cold approaches than probably about 9/10 guys on this site and you will Too. First, I'd say just arouse the desire. Not just a simple desire, there has to be a Breaking-point. But breaking-point I mean that you may need an experience, a particular chick you meet that just druves you to the point where you are not afraid of approaching, and you will approach endless women because you immediately know that first, (1) getting a lot of women easily is possible and second, doing a lot of approaches will bring you endless positive opportunities.
There is still Alot of room in me to expand my current abilities, (Puertorican lover has pointed out that I'm pushing too hard/being too aggressive // not letting them come to me, tnx btw)....but you will totally Amaze yourself when you, after a certain period of time look back and see that you have suddenly gained vast experience, have released your in-born potential and stretched your comfort level.
Before that time (I'm not saying that you Have to approach or do something you really don't want to do, you Shouldn't! Because the desire itself will CAUSE you to undertake this venture and you won't have to push yourself to approach, you won't have to Think about approaching, you will begin AUTOMATICALLY to approach and this, my friend will mark a decided turning point for you. So, first you need the experience of meeting/finding a girl to Inspire you to go and do approaches Effortlessly. Then you will see results and you can return here and post what you have learned (credit-- mystery for the idea of getting experience and sharing it).
Good luck, and travel happily.
suave
IMHO... I also believe that there is a point you can reach where you no longer have to do cold approaches, and can accomplish the number of lays you want through simple refferals from other chicks. Also, you can (against what most of the guys here and at mASF say -- though outfoxer says this -- you have them COME TO YOU (you don't need to approach) My best friend is this way. I know instinctively this is where we are all headed but but until this time... be aware of the joy of approaching.
p.s., I also want to credit Giovanni Casanova, Deep Dish, es_mer8, Duff, oskiano, PIPE-DJ2002, Slickster and Big-J and the others that suggested I start doing approaches.
Best to you
Hey man,
I'm very sorry to read this POST. Fvck, I'm in a situation where I would love to be in your shoes and and the opportunity to do cold approaches. You don't seem to get it and seem to be making Excuses for not doing cold approaches.
COLD APPROACHES are fun and exciting! There is a barrier that a A lot (and in fact most of you guys have) with cold approaches; it's a barrier that once you get over, you will have more Fun than you can imagine. It's fun and Exciting to go up to a random chick, open her and see how good you are at going from Just meeting her cold to talking, to changing places with her, to touching her and then finally fvucking her/ smelling her.
Once you get the TASTE of ***** you will NOT TURN Back. What I mean is that it's like a drug, a magic potion that turns you into an Animal. Once that happens there will be no fear or thought involved in doing approaches because your biologic drive kicks in and you Just DO IT.
It's just a matter of Desire. I wrote about this elsewhere as I was not doing approaches at All until I met a Very fine and sexy japanese girl. I told myself that I just Had to figure out how to put a girl like her in bed and, so after I saw her/said something I immediately went back and started doing research into this stuff.
I currently have more experience in the field / doing cold approaches than probably about 9/10 guys on this site and you will Too. First, I'd say just arouse the desire. Not just a simple desire, there has to be a Breaking-point. But breaking-point I mean that you may need an experience, a particular chick you meet that just druves you to the point where you are not afraid of approaching, and you will approach endless women because you immediately know that first, (1) getting a lot of women easily is possible and second, doing a lot of approaches will bring you endless positive opportunities.
There is still Alot of room in me to expand my current abilities, (Puertorican lover has pointed out that I'm pushing too hard/being too aggressive // not letting them come to me, tnx btw)....but you will totally Amaze yourself when you, after a certain period of time look back and see that you have suddenly gained vast experience, have released your in-born potential and stretched your comfort level.
Before that time (I'm not saying that you Have to approach or do something you really don't want to do, you Shouldn't! Because the desire itself will CAUSE you to undertake this venture and you won't have to push yourself to approach, you won't have to Think about approaching, you will begin AUTOMATICALLY to approach and this, my friend will mark a decided turning point for you. So, first you need the experience of meeting/finding a girl to Inspire you to go and do approaches Effortlessly. Then you will see results and you can return here and post what you have learned (credit-- mystery for the idea of getting experience and sharing it).
Good luck, and travel happily.
suave
IMHO... I also believe that there is a point you can reach where you no longer have to do cold approaches, and can accomplish the number of lays you want through simple refferals from other chicks. Also, you can (against what most of the guys here and at mASF say -- though outfoxer says this -- you have them COME TO YOU (you don't need to approach) My best friend is this way. I know instinctively this is where we are all headed but but until this time... be aware of the joy of approaching.
p.s., I also want to credit Giovanni Casanova, Deep Dish, es_mer8, Duff, oskiano, PIPE-DJ2002, Slickster and Big-J and the others that suggested I start doing approaches.
Best to you
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