Well, you know how you guys would say if I stopped trying to meet girls, one would come to me?? Well, guess what happened??
Let me explain. Lately, I've been talking to the girl who sits behind me in English a lot, and getting to know her really well. We have a lot in common, and get along really good. But, she's was dating this guy for a year and a half. Notice how I say 'was'??
Well, I was talking to her today, and they just broke up. I managed to get her mind off of it, and got her to laugh a lot, which is a pretty damn good feat considering she just got dumped by a bf of a year and a half. So, since we get along so good and all, and I didn't have to force myself to get to know her, I'm thinking that maybe next week and should ask her if she wants to get together sometime or something like that.
But, I want your opinions. She just got dumped by her bf of a year and a half, so I figure it will take her some time to get over him, so how much room should I give her, without backing off too far to not appear interested?? And how much should I try to be there for her and help her with this, without falling into the LJBF trap??
I figure this is the best chance I have right now, and do think this girl is really, really cool, so I don't want to f this up like I have in the past. So... what would you suggest??
-Mr. Pink
Let me explain. Lately, I've been talking to the girl who sits behind me in English a lot, and getting to know her really well. We have a lot in common, and get along really good. But, she's was dating this guy for a year and a half. Notice how I say 'was'??
Well, I was talking to her today, and they just broke up. I managed to get her mind off of it, and got her to laugh a lot, which is a pretty damn good feat considering she just got dumped by a bf of a year and a half. So, since we get along so good and all, and I didn't have to force myself to get to know her, I'm thinking that maybe next week and should ask her if she wants to get together sometime or something like that.
But, I want your opinions. She just got dumped by her bf of a year and a half, so I figure it will take her some time to get over him, so how much room should I give her, without backing off too far to not appear interested?? And how much should I try to be there for her and help her with this, without falling into the LJBF trap??
I figure this is the best chance I have right now, and do think this girl is really, really cool, so I don't want to f this up like I have in the past. So... what would you suggest??
-Mr. Pink