"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The joker's interrogation scene in The Dark Knight and his views about Civilization

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I first saw this movie when it first came out in the theaters. Now looking back, after life experiences and just living, do you guys think The Joker was somewhat right? Or do you still take Batman's side that there's still hope and good people in this world and you've got to take the bad guys out? Whose views are you leaning towards to now? And how do you still maintain a positive and noble outlook despite the many sh1tty circumstances that's taking place out there? I for one thinks there's still plenty of Good people out there and having a sense of Hope is a good thing, what about you?


 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah: Most people's reluctance to rob, cheat, rape, maim, and murder stems primairly from fear of punishment and social repercussions. Once those things vanish, we discover who's been putting on a facade, and who among us are true mensches
 

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Yeah: Most people's reluctance to rob, cheat, rape, maim, and murder stems primairly from fear of punishment and social repercussions. Once those things vanish, we discover who's been putting on a facade, and who among us are true mensches
Hey man....I just had a dream right now, it's 1:35 AM and I'm just waking up from that nightmare. I don't want to sound religious but it deals with God and extremism, in my dream it showed me a Pride lgbtq parade and how God would want those people to ultimately be killed and wiped out like Sodom and Gomorrah in The Bible. I woke up with up night sweats right now.....just made some coffee and recovering, that was intense, sort of makes you question humanity as whole whether these types of extremist behaviors would be justified. Personally, even in rough and tumble religions like Islam, they said Allah or God is the most merciful and compassionate and I don't want to give up hope and that side of me, I'd rather go the empathy and understanding route and passing good vibes around before resorting to such actions. But a part of me also believe there will be a time in the future where crap will hit the fan and a lot of devious subcultures will meet their demise.
 

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Personally, even in rough and tumble religions like Islam, they said Allah or God is the most merciful and compassionate...
Yeah, GOD might be unfailingly compassionate... That's an impractical expectation to have of mere mortals like us
 

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Hey man....I just had a dream right now, it's 1:35 AM and I'm just waking up from that nightmare. I don't want to sound religious but it deals with God and extremism, in my dream it showed me a Pride lgbtq parade and how God would want those people to ultimately be killed and wiped out like Sodom and Gomorrah in The Bible. I woke up with up night sweats right now.....just made some coffee and recovering, that was intense, sort of makes you question humanity as whole whether these types of extremist behaviors would be justified. Personally, even in rough and tumble religions like Islam, they said Allah or God is the most merciful and compassionate and I don't want to give up hope and that side of me, I'd rather go the empathy and understanding route and passing good vibes around before resorting to such actions. But a part of me also believe there will be a time in the future where crap will hit the fan and a lot of devious subcultures will meet their demise.
If you were a father (maybe you are, I don't know), would you raise your child with discipline and teach him what to do to do right and be successful, or would you just let him do whatever the heck he wanted to do with no consequences and not care whether he made a failure out of himself or not?

I'll take Batman, because I like to look on the positive side. But there are all kinds of people out there, and some of them will mess things up for everybody.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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