"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The joker's interrogation scene in The Dark Knight and his views about Civilization

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I first saw this movie when it first came out in the theaters. Now looking back, after life experiences and just living, do you guys think The Joker was somewhat right? Or do you still take Batman's side that there's still hope and good people in this world and you've got to take the bad guys out? Whose views are you leaning towards to now? And how do you still maintain a positive and noble outlook despite the many sh1tty circumstances that's taking place out there? I for one thinks there's still plenty of Good people out there and having a sense of Hope is a good thing, what about you?


 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah: Most people's reluctance to rob, cheat, rape, maim, and murder stems primairly from fear of punishment and social repercussions. Once those things vanish, we discover who's been putting on a facade, and who among us are true mensches
 

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Yeah: Most people's reluctance to rob, cheat, rape, maim, and murder stems primairly from fear of punishment and social repercussions. Once those things vanish, we discover who's been putting on a facade, and who among us are true mensches
Hey man....I just had a dream right now, it's 1:35 AM and I'm just waking up from that nightmare. I don't want to sound religious but it deals with God and extremism, in my dream it showed me a Pride lgbtq parade and how God would want those people to ultimately be killed and wiped out like Sodom and Gomorrah in The Bible. I woke up with up night sweats right now.....just made some coffee and recovering, that was intense, sort of makes you question humanity as whole whether these types of extremist behaviors would be justified. Personally, even in rough and tumble religions like Islam, they said Allah or God is the most merciful and compassionate and I don't want to give up hope and that side of me, I'd rather go the empathy and understanding route and passing good vibes around before resorting to such actions. But a part of me also believe there will be a time in the future where crap will hit the fan and a lot of devious subcultures will meet their demise.
 

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Personally, even in rough and tumble religions like Islam, they said Allah or God is the most merciful and compassionate...
Yeah, GOD might be unfailingly compassionate... That's an impractical expectation to have of mere mortals like us
 

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Hey man....I just had a dream right now, it's 1:35 AM and I'm just waking up from that nightmare. I don't want to sound religious but it deals with God and extremism, in my dream it showed me a Pride lgbtq parade and how God would want those people to ultimately be killed and wiped out like Sodom and Gomorrah in The Bible. I woke up with up night sweats right now.....just made some coffee and recovering, that was intense, sort of makes you question humanity as whole whether these types of extremist behaviors would be justified. Personally, even in rough and tumble religions like Islam, they said Allah or God is the most merciful and compassionate and I don't want to give up hope and that side of me, I'd rather go the empathy and understanding route and passing good vibes around before resorting to such actions. But a part of me also believe there will be a time in the future where crap will hit the fan and a lot of devious subcultures will meet their demise.
If you were a father (maybe you are, I don't know), would you raise your child with discipline and teach him what to do to do right and be successful, or would you just let him do whatever the heck he wanted to do with no consequences and not care whether he made a failure out of himself or not?

I'll take Batman, because I like to look on the positive side. But there are all kinds of people out there, and some of them will mess things up for everybody.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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