"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Jig Is Up, Boys

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Narcissistic Men Direct Their Anger At Women

Some gems:

some goofball scientist said:
Men who scored the highest on the narcissism test were more likely to view women as conniving gold diggers, as teases who tempt men with sex and don't deliver, or as seductresses with plans to trick men and "get them under their thumb," Keiller said.
another goof masquerading as a scientist said:
Narcissists don't have a problem with everyone, or with people that are different. They have a problem with people who may reject them.
some closet whack job who probably believes genders are societally programmed said:
Men tend to have more narcissistic traits than women, possibly because girls, more than boys, are taught to be nurturing, selfless and to put others first.
the doctor of doom for the mature mens board said:
They can be charming, self-promoting and even in the face of evidence they are not great, they still think they're great," Twenge said. "But as they age, they are also more likely to fail at school, work and relationships. It's tough to be a middle-aged narcissist.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"The doctor of doom for the mature men's board " ....priceless - that alone is worth the price of admission ...
Anyone else notice the rampant narcissism in that screen name ?
 

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Ok....and your point is?

What was the point of this article?

This is High School level ed...why did you post it?
 

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Lets not forget the follow up study:

"Hypergamous women typically direct their vaginas at narcissistic men."
 
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