"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Jig Is Up, Boys

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Narcissistic Men Direct Their Anger At Women

Some gems:

some goofball scientist said:
Men who scored the highest on the narcissism test were more likely to view women as conniving gold diggers, as teases who tempt men with sex and don't deliver, or as seductresses with plans to trick men and "get them under their thumb," Keiller said.
another goof masquerading as a scientist said:
Narcissists don't have a problem with everyone, or with people that are different. They have a problem with people who may reject them.
some closet whack job who probably believes genders are societally programmed said:
Men tend to have more narcissistic traits than women, possibly because girls, more than boys, are taught to be nurturing, selfless and to put others first.
the doctor of doom for the mature mens board said:
They can be charming, self-promoting and even in the face of evidence they are not great, they still think they're great," Twenge said. "But as they age, they are also more likely to fail at school, work and relationships. It's tough to be a middle-aged narcissist.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"The doctor of doom for the mature men's board " ....priceless - that alone is worth the price of admission ...
Anyone else notice the rampant narcissism in that screen name ?
 

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Ok....and your point is?

What was the point of this article?

This is High School level ed...why did you post it?
 

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Lets not forget the follow up study:

"Hypergamous women typically direct their vaginas at narcissistic men."
 
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