"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Jig Is Up, Boys

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Narcissistic Men Direct Their Anger At Women

Some gems:

some goofball scientist said:
Men who scored the highest on the narcissism test were more likely to view women as conniving gold diggers, as teases who tempt men with sex and don't deliver, or as seductresses with plans to trick men and "get them under their thumb," Keiller said.
another goof masquerading as a scientist said:
Narcissists don't have a problem with everyone, or with people that are different. They have a problem with people who may reject them.
some closet whack job who probably believes genders are societally programmed said:
Men tend to have more narcissistic traits than women, possibly because girls, more than boys, are taught to be nurturing, selfless and to put others first.
the doctor of doom for the mature mens board said:
They can be charming, self-promoting and even in the face of evidence they are not great, they still think they're great," Twenge said. "But as they age, they are also more likely to fail at school, work and relationships. It's tough to be a middle-aged narcissist.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"The doctor of doom for the mature men's board " ....priceless - that alone is worth the price of admission ...
Anyone else notice the rampant narcissism in that screen name ?
 

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Ok....and your point is?

What was the point of this article?

This is High School level ed...why did you post it?
 

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Lets not forget the follow up study:

"Hypergamous women typically direct their vaginas at narcissistic men."
 
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