"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The isolation of the Redpill

ohrein

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The confidence and not giving a **** about social norms will lose you a lot of friends and family. Most people give far too much importance to feelings over facts, particularly in this day and age. There is no way to change this. Anyone who gives validity to subjective emotions over logic CANNOT BE REASONED WITH. If you want to be the new you, you're not going to get along with these people.

I enjoy isolation. If you don't, I'd say steer clear of red pill topics entirely. Most of my acquaintances have reacted very poorly to it. Your best bet is to just keep your opinions to yourself and play the game of social norms. That's if you want a social life.

If you can accept that people aren't evil, they're just driven by biological mechanisms, you can forgive them and enjoy their company. The red pill is not a pessimistic ideology, it's one rooted in simple truth. You can still have fun with people even if they don't share your views.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CuddleJunkie

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One thought. You can be a happy mother****er even when you get into red-pill vs blue-pill conversations with friend and family. The happy beast that just take what he wants without anger or bad intentions...Just don't take things too seriously and joke about it. This way I've remained friends with my old blue-pills friends and have yet to find a problem with my family (the women of the family will ****-test you like crazy though, but they will knitt and do **** for you if you maintain your framelol). I've lost 2 friends, yes, but you can't please everybody. But of one thing I'm sure, I would have lost many more of them if I was an angry/sad mother****er in the red-pilled conversations.
 

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Yeah, makes sense. I ignore people with red pill propaganda too. Red pill guys are fairly common really, thankfully they're still a small minority disliked by society. A group of ignorant men who can't be changed, so they receive the punishment of social isolation.

Not sure why you guys can't find each other, might be something to do with complete lack of trust in other humans whatsoever. Especially of the female gender.

But yeah, your options are limited. You can't make people like you and your opinions if they don't want to, which few will. So if you want friends you can either live a lie or understand everyone else's point of view to see why people think it's misogynistic and arrogant. Last option is to stubbornly continue in your narrow track, but that means giving up a lot of potential friends (and women).
What a load of Bluepill Beta nonsense. Why are you on SS if you're bluepill exactly? To try and troll?
 

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What a load of Bluepill Beta nonsense. Why are you on SS if you're bluepill exactly? To try and troll?
1. I didn't say I was bluepill.
2. I'm here because I can and want to.
3. I don't try anything, I'm a troll in real life.
 
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