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The Internet is the problem

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Males = p0rn
Females = validation

That's what each gender wants. And the internet provides both, in spades

That is why your ancestors never had a problem. Dating forums and boot camps lol. Seriously?

The Internet changed everything
Technology advances creates constant change and those who are able to adapt to it the best will thrive and those who are not able to or unwilling to will suffer...

Everyone has to make the choice for themself but fighting against technology and the change from it would be like trying to stop a hurricane from destroying your house. Good luck because nothing you are going to do will make any difference, it is too powerful.
 
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I hope the next generation of the internet will account for the human condition in a way the current iteration cannot.

Need regulation at bare minimum
 

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Males = p0rn
Females = validation

That's what each gender wants. And the internet provides both, in spades

That is why your ancestors never had a problem. Dating forums and boot camps lol. Seriously?

The Internet changed everything
It's not the Internet. It the laws of the country that enable women to act without punishment or retribution. In Iran they have better Internet than New York City, yet men are still Kings and women are second class citizens.

Why would a woman treat a man with any sort of respect when she has NO FEAR of retribution? The courts, the laws, public opinion, and social conditioning has made women feel they can NO wrong. Until the laws change, it will only get worse.
 

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It's not the Internet. It the laws of the country that enable women to act without punishment or retribution. In Iran they have better Internet than New York City, yet men are still Kings and women are second class citizens.

Why would a woman treat a man with any sort of respect when she has NO FEAR of retribution? The courts, the laws, public opinion, and social conditioning has made women feel they can NO wrong. Until the laws change, it will only get worse.
A lot of men don't do anything to earn respect. Respect isn't given it is earned. With women or anyone else in life.
 

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I don't agree with this statement.
Internet is not the problem, used correctly it's a fantastic invention with endless opportunities for mankind.
Social media is the true problem, not only for dating as we know it, but on a deeper more substantial level it's ultimately a threat to democracy, leads to polarisation, young girls with destructive body-images, increased depression and suicide, just to name a few.
Remove social media from internet and you've a web filled with useful information instead of a monster whose business model is based on pure manipulation.
You may argue that internet changed everything and if that's good or bad, but it's unrealistic to believe that it was unavoidable in our evolution as species. Social media is another story.
Was thinking of making a thread about this.
 

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Males = p0rn
Females = validation

That's what each gender wants. And the internet provides both, in spades

That is why your ancestors never had a problem. Dating forums and boot camps lol. Seriously?

The Internet changed everything
I was just talking to my Dad last night about this.
I said "what would life be like again with the net and cell phones"
 

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I don't agree with this statement.
Internet is not the problem, used correctly it's a fantastic invention with endless opportunities for mankind.
Social media is the true problem, not only for dating as we know it, but on a deeper more substantial level it's ultimately a threat to democracy, leads to polarisation, young girls with destructive body-images, increased depression and suicide, just to name a few.
Remove social media from internet and you've a web filled with useful information instead of a monster whose business model is based on pure manipulation.
You may argue that internet changed everything and if that's good or bad, but it's unrealistic to believe that it was unavoidable in our evolution as species. Social media is another story.
Was thinking of making a thread about this.
Gotta a great point there dude. Tom Brokaw said SM will destroy our country.
The way things are going how could he be wrong?
 

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I don't agree with this statement.
Internet is not the problem, used correctly it's a fantastic invention with endless opportunities for mankind.
Social media is the true problem, not only for dating as we know it, but on a deeper more substantial level it's ultimately a threat to democracy, leads to polarisation, young girls with destructive body-images, increased depression and suicide, just to name a few.
Remove social media from internet and you've a web filled with useful information instead of a monster whose business model is based on pure manipulation.
You may argue that internet changed everything and if that's good or bad, but it's unrealistic to believe that it was unavoidable in our evolution as species. Social media is another story.
Was thinking of making a thread about this.
Facebook is antisocial media. When MySpace was around, I was pulling like there was no tomorrow. My only pickup line was do you like to smoke weed”.

The elusive obvious that most people don’t understand about social media these days is that it’s really anti social.

Myspace was about social expansion. You added people you didnt know In order to increase your social network.

Facebook is antisocial. You only add people you already know in real life. People think it’s creepy if you try to add them in an effort to expand your social circles.

Myspace was for checking what talent was out there.

Facebook is for snooping on your closed circle of friends.

One is expansive and inclusive. The other is exclusive And closed off.

This is why I avoid certain bars and clubs that are exclusive. The people there fall into the frame of the environment and act completely anti social. They will look at you weird for trying to socialize with them.

And of course Facebook was created by the human embodiment of anti social behavior - Mark zuckerberg.

The key is to stay away from exclusive, non expansive, and anti social environments.

Seek the open platforms where people expand their social networks. You can find this in real life such as fitness centers/niche clubs, or even online.
 

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I was just talking to my Dad last night about this.
I said "what would life be like again with the net and cell phones"
In some ways better in a lot of ways worse. I mean would you really want to have to take your kid to the library and sit for 2 hours doing nothing while he did research for his class paper in the reference section because those books can't be checked out? I mean I guess you could have read but still...
 

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Facebook is antisocial media. When MySpace was around, I was pulling like there was no tomorrow. My only pickup line was do you like to smoke weed”.

The elusive obvious that most people don’t understand about social media these days is that it’s really anti social.

Myspace was about social expansion. You added people you didnt know In order to increase your social network.

Facebook is antisocial. You only add people you already know real life. People think it’s creepy if you try to add them in an effort to expand your social circles.

Myspace was for checking what talent was out there.

Facebook is for snooping on your closed circle of friends.

One is expansive and inclusive. The other is exclusive And closed off.

This is why I avoid certain bars and clubs that are exclusive. The people there fall into the frame of the environment and act completely anti social. They will look at you weird for trying to socialize with them.

And of course Facebook was created by the human embodiment of anti social behavior - Mark zuckerberg.

The key is to stay away from exclusive, non expansive, and anti social environmentss.

Seek the open platforms where people expand their social networks. You can find this in real life such as fitness centers/niche clubs, or even online.
Funny story speaking about Facebook...for some reason on my Twitter feed a while back when I actually used it I saw a tweet from one of the Winklevos brothers...anyone who saw the facebook movie knows who I am talking about.

I tweeted at him and asked if he was really as big a d1ck in real life as he was portrayed in the movie...not surprisingly I got no response hahaha
 

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In some ways better in a lot of ways worse. I mean would you really want to have to take your kid to the library and sit for 2 hours doing nothing while he did research for his class paper in the reference section because those books can't be checked out? I mean I guess you could have read but still...
I had a couple heated makeouts in the library before. I miss those days lol
 

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It can be. If a person doesn't know better they can be susceptible to bad advice. They can also be led astray by people that are in a similar or worse position but pass off as "experts".
 

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You're so right, porn is ruining us

*gets on pornhub
 

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Males = p0rn
Females = validation

That's what each gender wants. And the internet provides both, in spades

That is why your ancestors never had a problem. Dating forums and boot camps lol. Seriously?

The Internet changed everything
The survival of the fittest.

In a changing social environment, it pays to get on top of things rather than complaining about it.

My social media accounts have helped me land like a new woman a month since years.

Use whatever you have, start whenever you can to do whatever you want.
 

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The survival of the fittest.

In a changing social environment, it pays to get on top of things rather than complaining about it.

My social media accounts have helped me land like a new woman a month since years.

Use whatever you have, start whenever you can to do whatever you want.
What are your suggestions for management of social media accounts for someone who wants to do better? What's important? What should we not do?
 

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What are your suggestions for management of social media accounts for someone who wants to do better? What's important? What should we not do?
I play music for fun.

My public instagram music account has a couple of thousand followers and I have 0 following.

This does 5 things:

- flex
- avoid wasting time scrolling
- focus on my craft
- use a public feedback mechanism
- help find gigs as a side hustle and free beer

I suggest find a niche you're good at finance, music, arts, coding whatever.

Find a suitable platform for it.

Publish content that is useful and link all your social media accounts to it.

Most of the girls I hook up w have hobbies which I admire as that is an important qualifying criteria.

YMMV.
 

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I play music for fun.

My public instagram music account has a couple of thousand followers and I have 0 following.

This does 5 things:

- flex
- avoid wasting time scrolling
- focus on my craft
- use a public feedback mechanism
- help find gigs as a side hustle and free beer

I suggest find a niche you're good at finance, music, arts, coding whatever.

Find a suitable platform for it.

Publish content that is useful and link all your social media accounts to it.

Most of the girls I hook up w have hobbies which I admire as that is an important qualifying criteria.

YMMV.
So your Instagram is centered around your hobbies? What about Facebook?
 

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So your Instagram is centered around your hobbies? What about Facebook?
I link my posts on instagram to my facebook fan page. Divert traffic to instagram.

Not so much on personal facebook as that has some old official company/govt folks/family.

I've rarely used tinder/dating apps.

I believe our focus should be on a niche we love and in using social media to publish useful content that helps people.

If you get to flex/sleep w women as a side product, that's great but that's not the aim.
 

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Males = p0rn
Females = validation

That's what each gender wants. And the internet provides both, in spades

That is why your ancestors never had a problem. Dating forums and boot camps lol. Seriously?

The Internet changed everything
Actually the problem is that men and women want different things, not that the internet gives it to them.
 

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I link my posts on instagram to my facebook fan page. Divert traffic to instagram.

Not so much on personal facebook as that has some old official company/govt folks/family.

I've rarely used tinder/dating apps.

I believe our focus should be on a niche we love and in using social media to publish useful content that helps people.

If you get to flex/sleep w women as a side product, that's great but that's not the aim.
Good and slick marketing with eye candy will cause emotions...
 
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