"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The influence of same names on girls

NobodyCares1

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So first let me tell you a story about what happened couple of days ago that made me thinking...

So basically to make it short me and my friends went to a concert and after it I introduced myself to a girl... her friend was already talking with my friend so we began to talk... the thing is... I have a quite rare name and her name was basically my name but in female form and she also has a half year old brother whose name is the same as mine... and it got me thinking... if this could have any influence on her attraction towards me... and if the influence is positive or negative... it might be positive in the way that she'd connect me with her brother who she likes so she would automatically like me a bit more but on the other side she might then think less sexually about me... but I've been making out with her a lot that evening so... what do you think about this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bernoulli

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Honestly I don't think it really matters. She would've made out with you if your name was something else.
 

NobodyCares1

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well yes she would make out with me no matter the name... but I'm just itnerested if it could have any influence... i don't know why :D
 

Deep Dish

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NobodyCares1 said:
I have a quite rare name and her name was basically my name but in female form... It got me thinking... if this could have any influence on her attraction towards me... and if the influence is positive or negative... it might be positive in the way that she'd connect me with her brother who she likes so she would automatically like me a bit more but on the other side she might then think less sexually about me...
How a girl responds depends on your game. Make an inside joke.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Poonani Maker

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Brian Briana?

Dude, who gives a sh!t. You are well on your path to becoming her puppy dog now. You will Lose! You might get a fvck as a dog-bone, but your mindset is very just tell her "Just use me...dump my pockets...go ahead, take all my worth" A name is nothing, man.
 
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