"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The influence of same names on girls

NobodyCares1

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So first let me tell you a story about what happened couple of days ago that made me thinking...

So basically to make it short me and my friends went to a concert and after it I introduced myself to a girl... her friend was already talking with my friend so we began to talk... the thing is... I have a quite rare name and her name was basically my name but in female form and she also has a half year old brother whose name is the same as mine... and it got me thinking... if this could have any influence on her attraction towards me... and if the influence is positive or negative... it might be positive in the way that she'd connect me with her brother who she likes so she would automatically like me a bit more but on the other side she might then think less sexually about me... but I've been making out with her a lot that evening so... what do you think about this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bernoulli

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Honestly I don't think it really matters. She would've made out with you if your name was something else.
 

NobodyCares1

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well yes she would make out with me no matter the name... but I'm just itnerested if it could have any influence... i don't know why :D
 

Deep Dish

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NobodyCares1 said:
I have a quite rare name and her name was basically my name but in female form... It got me thinking... if this could have any influence on her attraction towards me... and if the influence is positive or negative... it might be positive in the way that she'd connect me with her brother who she likes so she would automatically like me a bit more but on the other side she might then think less sexually about me...
How a girl responds depends on your game. Make an inside joke.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Poonani Maker

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Brian Briana?

Dude, who gives a sh!t. You are well on your path to becoming her puppy dog now. You will Lose! You might get a fvck as a dog-bone, but your mindset is very just tell her "Just use me...dump my pockets...go ahead, take all my worth" A name is nothing, man.
 
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