"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Importance of Risk

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"The greatest risk you can take in life is not to risk it all!"
The man who is passionate, the man who is most alive, is the man who is not afraid of risk. The happiest man is the man who embraces risk. Every time you hesitate, stall, or decide not to do something because you are afraid of some little risk, you miss out on life. You miss out on failures to learn from or look back and laugh at, you miss out on successes that could lead to so much more. To risk is to live, it is the only way to experience life to the fullest. You are afraid to approach the beautiful girl. Why? Because the risk of being humiliated. She’s 115lbs. what is she going to do? Beat you up?? Approach and fail, laugh at yourself, find a mistake or begin a nice relationship with a beautiful girl, but don’t kill those chances at life in pretense. Every time you get that feeling that you should say something, say it! You will be criticized, you might make someone angry, so ****ing what! You might say something that will change someone else’s life, you might say something that will ultimately change your life. People get away with saying whatever they want so why shouldn’t you? Offend someone, help someone, make someone laugh for crying out loud. This is your world, make it how you want it. Imagine yourself 80 years later. Imagine your regrets. What will hurt you more? “Man I sure looked like a fool when I streaked that time…” or “Gee I wish I had done something about that and wasn’t so afraid…” I know what I’d regret more, but you’ll just have to make that decision for yourself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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YUP. Totally agree .. especially when it comes to approaching woman. It costs $0 ... but it may give you $1,000,000 potential exicitment!
 

Jvesti

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Yes! I'm addicted to risk. Not gambling with cards that's weak to me but the kind of risk such as doing new things such as entrepreneurship, doing things differently, visiting new places. Once you start you can't stop. Pushing your boundaries of freedom is what makes you happy in life. Who wants to go basejumping with me???
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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