"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The importance of being MARRIED.

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An article by WEB MD that research says MARRIAGE is good for your HEALTH


Web Medical Doctor: "If it is a good marriage, the benefits are equally as great for women as for men; for men, just being married confers a tremendous amount of benefits.”

Is the research false?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just depends on the situation. I doubt it's good for your health if she is cheating on you with 10 different guys every night.
 

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I had always heard that according to research, men benefit from marriage (in that they are healthier and happier), but that women did not.
For instance, there's a current thread on this right now, just by coincidence:

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/single-childless-women-are-happier.261440/

There's a Bible verse I often think about, Corinthians 11:9:
"Also, the man was not created for the woman. The woman was created for the man."

If you're a man, that sounds good at first. But it's a double edged sword. It explains how men can find happiness, satisfaction, and fulfillment through a woman, but a woman cannot be fulfilled by a man.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I had always heard that according to research, men benefit from marriage (in that they are healthier and happier), but that women did not.
For instance, there's a current thread on this right now, just by coincidence:

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/single-childless-women-are-happier.261440/

There's a Bible verse I often think about, Corinthians 11:9:
"Also, the man was not created for the woman. The woman was created for the man."

If you're a man, that sounds good at first. But it's a double edged sword. It explains how men can find happiness, satisfaction, and fulfillment through a woman, but a woman cannot be fulfilled by a man.
She can only be fulfilled in her wife duties of raising strong healthy children and helping with the management operations of day to day life. The wife to the husband is the undying love of a top notch lifelong assistant to the ceo boss
 

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I think part of the reason (for the health benefit) is that the nagging wife will convince hubby to see a doctor. A single bachelor guy may ignore a potential medical problem.
Not if the medical doctor is a fairly attractive female.
 

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I think part of the reason (for the health benefit) is that the nagging wife will convince hubby to see a doctor. A single bachelor guy may ignore a potential medical problem.
Or the wife might take a life insurance policy out on her husband, keep her mouth shut, and hope for the best.lol
 

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researches you need to ask 3 things, who is paying for it, what is his agenda, and who is doing the work, most of time the reasearch have nothing to do with science and more with trying to get somethingto prove they point
so you knowing this what we can get from this article?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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researches you need to ask 3 things, who is paying for it, what is his agenda, and who is doing the work, most of time the reasearch have nothing to do with science and more with trying to get somethingto prove they point
so you knowing this what we can get from this article?
Not only that how is the data interpreted? Where is the link to the original study first of all. Was this a survey? Did they use a control group?
 

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Fvck sake. That thread is a complete joke/feminist frame grab.

In regards to this thread, yeah it seems to be true. But not something that I consider tbh.
You didn’t read the important parts at the end which would put a heavy swing on this thread.
Not seeing the forest for the trees prevents one from learning.
 

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Anything coming from mainstream media is slanted garbage from dilbert “experts”. I barely read them. They don’t add anything to my life.
 

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I would not believe things like that coming from doctors and research, the reason is, medical schools (and most universities) kneel to the feminist propaganda they have been fed. The issue becomes if you are constantly fed "marriage is good, marriage is good, masculinity bad, marriage good marriage good" then you'll think you are in the best possible situation you can be in (even if the marriage is sh1t) because you are simply brain washed, but you will seem to be "healthier." That will skew data to no end from massive amount of bias.
 

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Probably not even real research just a survey of like 100 people
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I had always heard that according to research, men benefit from marriage (in that they are healthier and happier), but that women did not.
In West after 60th marriage is more benefiting men than women, for simple reason , women is more easy for them get sex, in the past average woman wanted marriage more than average man , now it is vice versa. and this is what inflated women market. women are less willing to commit and more willing to breakup because they will not be alone.
 
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