The importance of abundance mentality

[Romanemp22]

Creating abundance mentality is no easy task,especially in early years of dating. I guess every man has fallen into a trap of oneitis and scarcity mentality, but the difference is some man learn it in teen years as they got burned and yet there are man who just keep pedestealising every slightlly cute girl who gave him a bit of attention, even in his late 20s or 30s.What do you think how come some man never seem to work enough on them, their overall confidence and they keep getting depressed after every failed relationship as he believe there wont be any other ever?How come some people have Hard time realising that there will always be another girl? Does that has to do with maybe their family upbringing, overthinking, low self esteem? Feel free to join discussion and share your oppinions.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Many men these days are so deprived of something as simple as female attention that they are overwhelmed with just a hug. Wrapped around the finger of a girl who showed the slightest attention. That is our current social environment

 

[corrector]

You said you have no issue attracting girls, but then you get buthurt over performance anxiety. So yes this advice is good for you because you have the looks.

For others as @redskinsfan92 is referring to, a failed relationship that feels like a fluke it got there in the first place feels like you go off a cliff. If you are invisible to women then you can not have an abundance mentality. You just give up to a point you just dont care.

 

[Romanemp22]

You said you have no issue attracting girls, but then you get buthurt over performance anxiety. So yes this advice is good for you because you have the looks.

For others as @redskinsfan92 is referring to, a failed relationship that feels like a fluke it got there in the first place feels like you go off a cliff. If you are invisible to women then you can not have an abundance mentality. You just give up to a point you just dont care.

Yes it did bump me a little bit as i didnt even know what performance anxiety was prior that but i never said i will never found another girl or she was the one to be that kind of buthurt

 

[MatureDJ]

Creating abundance mentality is no easy task,especially in early years of dating. I guess every man has fallen into a trap of oneitis and scarcity mentality, but the difference is some man learn it in teen years as they got burned and yet there are man who just keep pedestealising every slightlly cute girl who gave him a bit of attention, even in his late 20s or 30s.What do you think how come some man never seem to work enough on them, their overall confidence and they keep getting depressed after every failed relationship as he believe there wont be any other ever?How come some people have Hard time realising that there will always be another girl? Does that has to do with maybe their family upbringing, overthinking, low self esteem? Feel free to join discussion and share your oppinions.

It's hard to have an "abundance mentality" when there is shortage. That said, I think escortcelling does take away the feeling of "I can't screw up with this one since if I blow it, I won't be getting any".

 

[corrector]

We are wired to get attached to a woman and I see redpill as basically a self defence system to manage this.

Redpill means you have options and Blackpill means you don't.

 

[corrector]

It's hard to have an "abundance mentality" when there is shortage. That said, I think escortcelling does take away the feeling of "I can't screw up with this one since if I blow it, I won't be getting any".

How would you know that? Are you an escortcell yourself or is this your theoretical last resort like @markfromeurope - the last resort that exists in mind only but is never used.