"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The imperfections of the Female

Badmannaz

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Okay im posting this for one big reason is it me or is it that everytime I get or find a girl likes me and were doing the whole dating thing I all of a sudden just start to notice all the imperfections a female has.....I'm not saying she's ugly when you see her but i mean like when your friend tells you that a girl likes you or your talking to her you start to notice EVERYthing that this chick isn't......I don't know but am i shallow or something???

this is all that has to be right

1.great smelling(and i mean great)
2.clean teeth
3. no under arm hair
4.Cute feet (i will literally not talk to a girl if she has bad feet)
5.and she has to have cute eyes....

like everything that intimidates me from a women I like and if one of them is F\/cked then i slowly get turned off .....IDK i'm just askin if any of you guys have this problem.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DonJuanMonk

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Usually those who are imperfect themselves tend to notice imperfections on others.

There is rarely anyone I have met that is not scarred physically or mentally.
 

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4.Cute feet (i will literally not talk to a girl if she has bad feet)
Nothing worse than a hot girl with sausage toes.

~Sloopy
 
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