"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The imperfections of the Female

Badmannaz

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Okay im posting this for one big reason is it me or is it that everytime I get or find a girl likes me and were doing the whole dating thing I all of a sudden just start to notice all the imperfections a female has.....I'm not saying she's ugly when you see her but i mean like when your friend tells you that a girl likes you or your talking to her you start to notice EVERYthing that this chick isn't......I don't know but am i shallow or something???

this is all that has to be right

1.great smelling(and i mean great)
2.clean teeth
3. no under arm hair
4.Cute feet (i will literally not talk to a girl if she has bad feet)
5.and she has to have cute eyes....

like everything that intimidates me from a women I like and if one of them is F\/cked then i slowly get turned off .....IDK i'm just askin if any of you guys have this problem.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonJuanMonk

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Usually those who are imperfect themselves tend to notice imperfections on others.

There is rarely anyone I have met that is not scarred physically or mentally.
 

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4.Cute feet (i will literally not talk to a girl if she has bad feet)
Nothing worse than a hot girl with sausage toes.

~Sloopy
 
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