The "I'm Busy This Weekend, How About The Weekend After" Girl.

[soulforge]

We all know how much attention & messages females get on dating apps.

Even the most average girl will get a mountain of offers & messages from thirsty dudes trying to get laid or trying to marry up some online slvt.

If a girl tells me that she is busy this weekend, how about the weekend after? In regards to time frame, that will be more than likely be around 2 WEEKS time.

The chances of you getting a legit date from a hotty who is getting bombarded with offers over that two week period of time, is very fukin LOW unless her IL super high.

Personaly if I am having to wait anything over 5-7 days to meet an online girl.. I simply write her off.

However if I am in constant rotation of dates, then if she happens to be pretty hot, I don't mind keeping in touch with her, just incase she is still up for grabs two weeks down the line.

What kind of time frame do you operate under?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I use about the same time frame as yours (5-7) days

However, this sounds like perhaps the kind of girl who *only* dates on weekends. That kind of girl has an overall low IL in dating imo, or perhaps too structured, if she can't even make time during the week.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Just put her on the backburner and focus on other women, if you still have no dates in two weeks go for her as your backup plan

 

[Lookatu]

Suggest to meet up on a weeknight. Generally I only reserve weekends for proven girls/plates and not 1st dates/meetups.

Girl can already have plans which is reasonable. Also as @BillyPilgrim indicated, she might only go out on the weekends too. So if she already setup something before you showed up in the picture, it isn't reasonable that she accomodates you the following weekend.