The illusion of pre-selection

[tksniper]

This post only applies to guys who actually approach.

Have you noticed a weird pattern where whenever you are looking at women they run away. And then you give up but give them a last glance you see them eye balling you?

You might think your “ioi” radar is off. Or if you are spiritual, you’re not “manifesting”.


You look, they look away. You look away, they look. You think it’s bad timing.

In reality pre selection is true to a degree. But not to 90% of males.

In reality, whenever you are drifting and staring at women, they will run away.

But whenever you are occupied with some purpose, they can FINALLY take in your value and see it for what it is.

Women cannot truly know your true value when you are in the prowl staring at them looking for an approach angle.

This may sound contradictory and controversial but it came after I’ve approached thousands of women.

Even when I am staring at my phone and notice someone looking at me, it’s a hot chick twirling her tongue. My non reaction to women allowed them to soak in my value and they were able to react according.

But when I’m on the prowl , no matter how hot I am, they all run.

So the key is to use your brain cells. Have an activity you are already doing that day that involves women and if you are high value, you will get tons of approach invitations.

Do not drift and be on the prowl with no purpose.

This advice is for attractive males only. I have no idea how to create attraction with game.

Now that I’ve outed myself as a tattooed guy with abs, I feel like I need to remind everyone I don’t know how fat guys get laid.

 

[Bigpapa]

I think that the main issue is that when you look at someone non naturally, very likely they will think that an immediate danger is lurking so that is why they usually go in “ fight or flight” mode

Spam approach never really yields good results

speaking of approaches, you said some time back that you will do a marothon of approaches in New York over a weekend. How that went?

 

[Clockwerk50]

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[taiyuu_otoko]

Think of it in terms of hunter gatherers, deeper instincts.

Dudes that are busy killing big animals and leading their peers are highly desired by most women, since those are productive, tribe supporting behaviors that send a signal to her instincts that her kids will be cared for.

Dudes who are instead putting on their attention on women aren't hunting, aren't acquiring resources, aren't providing for others give women the creeps. Ladies who had instinctive attraction for these dudes didn't pass on their DNA for too many generations.

Ladies like a man with a plan, unless that plan is her.

Of course, there are plenty of other variables that muck things up.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Have you noticed a weird pattern where whenever you are looking at women they run away

Leering creepily at a gaggle of 19 year old co-eds from across the dining room.at Outback, whilst sharpening your K-Bar blade generally doesn't = Said gals readily warming up to you

 

[Bingo-Player]

It's extremely common for women to flee when pressed too hard even if interest is high if she isn't well enough bonded to you and you come on too strong she will get the ICK quickly

Fvck I've even known it too happen to guys in relationships , they make the woman the centre of the universe and it goes horribly wrong

When I was a lot younger and stupider I would often fall into that trap and I've seen it happen to a million other guys too.

There's something in the female psyche that seems to deeply unsettle them when a man is either too focused or too available for them

Nonchalance & mystery are very very powerful attraction dynamics for women , I imagine similar to what seeing a woman in a bikini is too a man

If she believes you're not that bothered its like cat nip for them

Conversely if she knows she has you where she wants you

The attraction becomes boring , predictable and she couldn't care less what you say or do

 

[OngBak]

Think of it in terms of hunter gatherers, deeper instincts.

Dudes that are busy killing big animals and leading their peers are highly desired by most women, since those are productive, tribe supporting behaviors that send a signal to her instincts that her kids will be cared for.

Dudes who are instead putting on their attention on women aren't hunting, aren't acquiring resources, aren't providing for others give women the creeps. Ladies who had instinctive attraction for these dudes didn't pass on their DNA for too many generations.

Ladies like a man with a plan, unless that plan is her.

Of course, there are plenty of other variables that muck things up.

Its too broad and unspecific and you are merely describing a provider - thats not what it is about in the holistical sense. One f.e Men provide only for their own tribe, to the people you choose and deem as worth it. Woman will hate this type of guy and will tear him down with psychological warfare.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Yeah don't stare. Pickup 101. Approach or move on.

One girl I picked up told me "If you hadn't talked to me I would have been pissed because you kept glancing at me." Lol. If she's returning your look for a second, just approach. If she's not, do it anyway.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I feel like I need to remind everyone I don’t know how fat guys get laid

Many do. Go to any highly populated area and you’ll see women with pot-bellied men.

 

[MatureDJ]

Have you noticed a weird pattern where whenever you are looking at women they run away. And then you give up but give them a last glance you see them eye balling you?

I seem to get chicks to tell me to stop staring.