I've read a lot on here about keeping your options open and seeing/dating multiple girls at once until you are actually in a relationship. I agree this is a good idea, but I have a question.
Do those of you who do this do it so you can simply have a back up plan or get rid of one when you two are done with, or do you do it to intact a little jealousy in the girls, or do you do both?
I feel the first reason is the best reason why, just to keep your options open so you don't get stuck with one girl and end up having nothing if it ends. I feel the 2nd reason is good too, but I feel it would give you the aura of being a "player" and turning girls off a bit.
I have done this before while talking to 3 girls, but I made sure they didn't know I was talking to the other girls at the time.
I guess I'm wondering if some of you use the jealousy the other girls might feel to your advantage, and how you do it to avoid seeming like a player or a ****.
Do those of you who do this do it so you can simply have a back up plan or get rid of one when you two are done with, or do you do it to intact a little jealousy in the girls, or do you do both?
I feel the first reason is the best reason why, just to keep your options open so you don't get stuck with one girl and end up having nothing if it ends. I feel the 2nd reason is good too, but I feel it would give you the aura of being a "player" and turning girls off a bit.
I have done this before while talking to 3 girls, but I made sure they didn't know I was talking to the other girls at the time.
I guess I'm wondering if some of you use the jealousy the other girls might feel to your advantage, and how you do it to avoid seeming like a player or a ****.
