- Dec 4, 2020
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Hey guys, so there's this girl who works and works out at my gym. She's a HB8 and I've caught her looking at me a few times. I introduced myself and got her name the other day while talking to one of my boys who works there too. This morning I was lifting and she came in to do her work out, and again I caught her looking, she also moved to work out near me at one point because she started doing an exercise near me (made more eye contact) that I know she could've been doing in other parts of the gym. So towards the end of my work out I went up and started a conversation, just small talk and it only lasted a few minutes. It started off good but then turned relatively platonic which is my bad because I should've made it man to women and flirty to whole time. Once it died off I went back and finished my workout. I've been working on getting over approach anxiety so I decided to talk to her one more time on my way out and get her number but as you could've guessed by the title I got the "I have a boyfriend" rejection. So I said to her to have a good rest of her workout and left. Now I know she had some interest in me because of all the glances and how receptive she was to me when I started to first conversation with her. So I was wondering everyone's thoughts on the "I have a boyfriend" rejection and how I could've responded to still close and get her number if that's possible. Or least the best way to react to that reject and still come off as high value to her.