The human mind must reason

[WaRpEd]

Well i hope this will apply to someone. If this dose not apply to you...well its still interesting (hmmmm psychology's fun huh?) And one day it may apply to you

Think of a show such as fear factor. People with aracnaphobia (not sure how to spell it, but its the fear of spiders) are forced to eat spiders. If you pay attention to the interviews at the end of the competition, you will notice that the losers usually comment with something such as "that was't as bad as I thought it would be"

However the winners usually respond with something such as "that was horrible" and "ill never do that again".



Why is this?



It is because the human mind has to find a reason for figuring out why the crap you just ate a spider. For the winner its obvious, your walking away with a new car, or a heavier wallet.

However what about the loser? They have no prize or anything to serve as the reason for competing. Therefore the mind tells the loser "you know that wasnt so bad, infact, u kindof enjoyed it". Because (like i just said) the human mind HAS (i repeat it HAS) to find a reason for what u just did.

If your afraid of something you cant just fiddle faddle around. YOU HAVE TO TACKLE IT HEAD ON!

I hope you see were this applies to your game. If your afraid of approaching a woman. Smack yourself, grab your boys, remind yourself what you are...and go.


Hope this helps

-warped

 

[flippinfreak]

Well THAT was poorly written

bravo though, I hope you get many reasonable responses.

 

[WaRpEd]

lol

Dat der grammar stuff aint sumetin i ever learnt

Lol, I know it was poorly writtin dude, it was 1:13AM and i had been up two days straight (insomnia). I really didnt give a hoot if it was in proper form. Ill go back through and straighten it up and add more detail later, as their is plenty i can go into.

But I am sure that you get the idea.

 

[Dante3214]

The winners exaggerate, if it was actually "bad".


They wouldn't be very happy... they might even be traumatized.

 

[WaRpEd]

Applying this

SO!

Lets apply this to your game.

Your at a club, you see a woman, and holly crap look at that behind...its a HB9. You lock eyes, you smile.......she smiles and whata gorgeous smile it is. You think to yourself "lets go talk to her". However quite naturally you crap yourself and change your mind.:nervous:

Well, as it turnes out you have vaginaphobia.

 

[WaRpEd]

Applying this continued

Three days after your diagnosis of vaginaphobia. You are at the store and you see it, a HB8.5. What is a man to do?

It takes every inch of will power you have in your body to make your legs move, but you force yourself to go talk to her this time. You talk to her for a little while, and you decide its time to get her number.

Oh snap...

What?...

Could it be??...

You just got rejected. Now, you should be horribly shaken up. But as your walking away you realize, "that wasn't so bad, infact I kindof enjoyed it"

-43 minutes 12 seconds later-

You walk up to the cashier...and wouldn't you know it shes a HB9.

So you force yourself to talk to her, and wow you hit it off! So you decide, "what the heck, lets ask for her number".

HOLLY CRAP! Ring the bells, throw confetti, watch the parade......You just succeded. :cheer:

 

[WaRpEd]

So lets look at the two different angles at this

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Rejection: You didn't get her number but wow, this wasn't as bad as you thought it would be. Infact, the entire game was kindof fun. And hey atleast you have another approach under your belt right? A little more experience never hurt anyone.

Why does somebody think this? Its the part of your brain that " HAS (i repeat it HAS) to find a reason for what u just did."

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Success: Well this is obvious.
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Hope you can see how this applies.-Warped