"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The hotties ugly friend HELP

johnmich

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What do you do if you know a really fit (not healthy, pretty, hot etc) lass and their best friend or good friend likes you.

This happened to me a bit ago.

Girl H (the hottie) hung with Girl D (another hottie) and girl G (shes a 'munter' - ugly).

I liked girl H but she once came up to me saying that girl G really fancied me.
Girl G is nothing to look at and a bit of a chav (well known in britain).
When ideclined they are all like 'dont be tight' or 'your evil' etc.

How do you handle this situation??

:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by johnmich
What do you do if you know a really fit (not healthy, pretty, hot etc) lass and their best friend or good friend likes you.

This happened to me a bit ago.

Girl H (the hottie) hung with Girl D (another hottie) and girl G (shes a 'munter' - ugly).

I liked girl H but she once came up to me saying that girl G really fancied me.
Girl G is nothing to look at and a bit of a chav (well known in britain).
When ideclined they are all like 'dont be tight' or 'your evil' etc.

How do you handle this situation??

:confused:
Fock em. Obviously they dont think highly of you if theyre trying to hook you up with a damn ogre.
 

MyNameIsEd

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Talk about shallow...

It's all about status. If you're "settling" for a girl you don't like that means you don't put yourself high enough to be really popular with the chicks.
 

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^umm hes not settling for her, which means he does put himself above her

u know, u shouldve viewed the hottie as being as ugly as the 'munster'
 
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