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The hotties ugly friend HELP

johnmich

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What do you do if you know a really fit (not healthy, pretty, hot etc) lass and their best friend or good friend likes you.

This happened to me a bit ago.

Girl H (the hottie) hung with Girl D (another hottie) and girl G (shes a 'munter' - ugly).

I liked girl H but she once came up to me saying that girl G really fancied me.
Girl G is nothing to look at and a bit of a chav (well known in britain).
When ideclined they are all like 'dont be tight' or 'your evil' etc.

How do you handle this situation??

:confused:
 

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Originally posted by johnmich
What do you do if you know a really fit (not healthy, pretty, hot etc) lass and their best friend or good friend likes you.

This happened to me a bit ago.

Girl H (the hottie) hung with Girl D (another hottie) and girl G (shes a 'munter' - ugly).

I liked girl H but she once came up to me saying that girl G really fancied me.
Girl G is nothing to look at and a bit of a chav (well known in britain).
When ideclined they are all like 'dont be tight' or 'your evil' etc.

How do you handle this situation??

:confused:
Fock em. Obviously they dont think highly of you if theyre trying to hook you up with a damn ogre.
 

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Talk about shallow...

It's all about status. If you're "settling" for a girl you don't like that means you don't put yourself high enough to be really popular with the chicks.
 

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^umm hes not settling for her, which means he does put himself above her

u know, u shouldve viewed the hottie as being as ugly as the 'munster'
 
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