"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So im going drinking with the hottest girl in my school, just me, my friend, my friends girlfriend and the hottest girl in my school.

Just us four. Well shes not the hottest girl but the hottest girl in the junior class.

So its just me, my friend, my friends girlfriend and the girl's best friend who is REALLY HOT. We know eachother but we dont usually talk or anything just "hey whats up."

Tips would be great.

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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no seriously shes really hot i know it adds nothing into the equation but its just that shes really hot, when she was a sophomore she had a senior boyfriend
 

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If you have no idea where to begin then you should try and start reading the DJ Bible. Theres tons of information in there and anything these guys can tell you will more than likely be in there as far as first impressions with a girl. I doubt she's the "hottest girl in the school". Thats just a way of saying she's one of the best looking in school. By you saying she's the "hottest looking etc.", you are putting her on a pedestal. You don't realize it but with this mentality you will come off as if she is the best you can do, like the latter post has said, you should treat her as you would any other hot girl. You don't wanna be like every other guy drooling over her looks and telling her every other second "you're hot" and what not. Check out the DJ Bible, you'll be glad you did. And learn all you can from the articles, quick tips, etc. This is a valuable asset you have come accross. In the year i've been here i've learned a lot. Still got some but i've come a long way. Good luck with your situation man.
 

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Originally posted by auggressive
no seriously shes really hot i know it adds nothing into the equation but its just that shes really hot, when she was a sophomore she had a senior boyfriend
That has to do with absolutely nothing. The point is, don't even THINK about her as beign the hottest or whatever. If you do that, you already have her on a pedestal. Treat her as you would treat an average girl.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Call her hot AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. She will so fall for you then and want to jump your bones right THEN and THERE.

I mean c'mon, who doesn't love hearing " YOUR HOTHOTHOT" all day long?
 
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Reminds me of a time last year when I told the "hottest chick in my grade" by other dude's standards to "SHUT THE F*CK UP!!" after she told me to quit talking about decapitated babies and sh*t(I'm gonna be the next Ted Bundy, a real seducer).


Now we're fixing to date. So, you never know what could happen bro! Just be calm and collected, make convo, and umm keep your DJ mindset and you'll do some damage if ya know what I mean;)

Like my brother Vinnie says "broes before hoes"
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
Like my brother Vinnie says "broes before hoes"
That quote is classic. Broes Before Hoes... It speaks volumes!
 

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Get drunk with her and see where it goes.

Remember, when you're drunk most things are forgivable, and when a girl is drunk her inhibitions lower.
 

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u shouldnt need booze to catch some snatch...a real DJ only needs his mind...his body...and his voice to get some...shes the "hottest" girl...whoopdie...if shes so hot..she knows it...use some well placed neg hits...BE FUN...keep compliments to a bare minimum..keep her guessing...she wont know what the hell ur doing...and she'll wonder why u arent like every other guy who tries to get in her pants...and by doing that...ull do something most of them wont...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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your jsut putting her on the pedestal, get a grip men, thier are plenty out ther, problem is cant pick all of them
 
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