"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So im going drinking with the hottest girl in my school, just me, my friend, my friends girlfriend and the hottest girl in my school.

Just us four. Well shes not the hottest girl but the hottest girl in the junior class.

So its just me, my friend, my friends girlfriend and the girl's best friend who is REALLY HOT. We know eachother but we dont usually talk or anything just "hey whats up."

Tips would be great.

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no seriously shes really hot i know it adds nothing into the equation but its just that shes really hot, when she was a sophomore she had a senior boyfriend
 

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If you have no idea where to begin then you should try and start reading the DJ Bible. Theres tons of information in there and anything these guys can tell you will more than likely be in there as far as first impressions with a girl. I doubt she's the "hottest girl in the school". Thats just a way of saying she's one of the best looking in school. By you saying she's the "hottest looking etc.", you are putting her on a pedestal. You don't realize it but with this mentality you will come off as if she is the best you can do, like the latter post has said, you should treat her as you would any other hot girl. You don't wanna be like every other guy drooling over her looks and telling her every other second "you're hot" and what not. Check out the DJ Bible, you'll be glad you did. And learn all you can from the articles, quick tips, etc. This is a valuable asset you have come accross. In the year i've been here i've learned a lot. Still got some but i've come a long way. Good luck with your situation man.
 

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Originally posted by auggressive
no seriously shes really hot i know it adds nothing into the equation but its just that shes really hot, when she was a sophomore she had a senior boyfriend
That has to do with absolutely nothing. The point is, don't even THINK about her as beign the hottest or whatever. If you do that, you already have her on a pedestal. Treat her as you would treat an average girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Evil-Rom

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Call her hot AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. She will so fall for you then and want to jump your bones right THEN and THERE.

I mean c'mon, who doesn't love hearing " YOUR HOTHOTHOT" all day long?
 
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Reminds me of a time last year when I told the "hottest chick in my grade" by other dude's standards to "SHUT THE F*CK UP!!" after she told me to quit talking about decapitated babies and sh*t(I'm gonna be the next Ted Bundy, a real seducer).


Now we're fixing to date. So, you never know what could happen bro! Just be calm and collected, make convo, and umm keep your DJ mindset and you'll do some damage if ya know what I mean;)

Like my brother Vinnie says "broes before hoes"
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
Like my brother Vinnie says "broes before hoes"
That quote is classic. Broes Before Hoes... It speaks volumes!
 

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Get drunk with her and see where it goes.

Remember, when you're drunk most things are forgivable, and when a girl is drunk her inhibitions lower.
 

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u shouldnt need booze to catch some snatch...a real DJ only needs his mind...his body...and his voice to get some...shes the "hottest" girl...whoopdie...if shes so hot..she knows it...use some well placed neg hits...BE FUN...keep compliments to a bare minimum..keep her guessing...she wont know what the hell ur doing...and she'll wonder why u arent like every other guy who tries to get in her pants...and by doing that...ull do something most of them wont...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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evol_andre

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your jsut putting her on the pedestal, get a grip men, thier are plenty out ther, problem is cant pick all of them
 
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