DjDreamer
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True, there is a good reason for the naming of this site.
I agree 100%
Everyone's problem can be resolved just by showing sosuaveness in their life...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The Horrible Lies of SoSuave.com
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True, there is a good reason for the naming of this site.
Everyone's problem can be resolved just by showing sosuaveness in their life...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
George Gordon
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"I can walk!" And he does.
!GEORGE GORDON!
An infant learns to walk. What does he have to say? What is his conclusion?
"I can walk!" And he does.
!GEORGE GORDON!
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Very good stuff. First post really hit me. Pook's post wasn't bad either, but he defended himself well. I still say that both should be thought about, and never to follow one or the other even though the first one is more of a critique. A very good one I might add.
ThunderMaverick
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With all of this going on, in my opinion, after all is said and done in this topic, you all should be saying "I agree to disagree".
But I think some people here are arguing for argument's sake. No..nothing that was said here was revolutionary. I don't think eyes were opened or deep secrets were revealed. It was simply someone saying:
"In my opinion sosuave and techniques posted here are wrong!" Hahaha. What a trail blazer. *wipes tear*
And defending the point and arguing more about it just makes the circle go around. Nothing was learned because no one really listened.
But I'll say on one point about thinking and doing...
I'm sorry, but if we're going to be subbornly litteral here, i have a fact to share.
A competent human being cannot ACT without THINKING. Your brain still THINKS even in a impulsive situation. (Subconscious, anyone? Your subconscious isn't in your dick
or in your itchy trigger finger. The subconscious is in your...well you figure it out. ^_~ )
SOOO the point comes around again: I think, therefore I am. Thoughts LEAD to ACTION. You can think about something, but ultimately you wil ACT on those thoughts.
"Put your money where your mouth is"
"You can talk the walk, but can you walk the talk?"
And the infamous: "I think, therefore I AM"
I THINK!
I AM! DAMMIT!
Man, If you argue against this, i might have read your post all wrong...or you just might feel like aruging again...in which case i'm going to blow my brains out. And I think that Dr. P hits it right on the head. (Puerto Rican Lover) This site is to help, not hurt. You don't like it, there's not reason for you to be here.
Get the FUCK out.
But this is just my opinion. ^_~
But I think some people here are arguing for argument's sake. No..nothing that was said here was revolutionary. I don't think eyes were opened or deep secrets were revealed. It was simply someone saying:
"In my opinion sosuave and techniques posted here are wrong!" Hahaha. What a trail blazer. *wipes tear*
And defending the point and arguing more about it just makes the circle go around. Nothing was learned because no one really listened.
But I'll say on one point about thinking and doing...
I'm sorry, but if we're going to be subbornly litteral here, i have a fact to share.
A competent human being cannot ACT without THINKING. Your brain still THINKS even in a impulsive situation. (Subconscious, anyone? Your subconscious isn't in your dick
or in your itchy trigger finger. The subconscious is in your...well you figure it out. ^_~ )
SOOO the point comes around again: I think, therefore I am. Thoughts LEAD to ACTION. You can think about something, but ultimately you wil ACT on those thoughts.
"Put your money where your mouth is"
"You can talk the walk, but can you walk the talk?"
And the infamous: "I think, therefore I AM"
I THINK!
I AM! DAMMIT!
Man, If you argue against this, i might have read your post all wrong...or you just might feel like aruging again...in which case i'm going to blow my brains out. And I think that Dr. P hits it right on the head. (Puerto Rican Lover) This site is to help, not hurt. You don't like it, there's not reason for you to be here.
Get the FUCK out.
But this is just my opinion. ^_~
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ThunderMaverick
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Oy vey. This thread is a year old.
*smacks forehead*
Me and my big mouth...
*smacks forehead*
Me and my big mouth...