"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DjDreamer

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Originally posted by WestCoaster: There's a reason this site is called sosuave not souptight or soobsessed.
LoL

True, there is a good reason for the naming of this site.

Originally posted by Westcoaster: Being calm, cool, confident, and collected whether you're dating, serious, married, single, divorced, never married, is the key to everything here. If you have those above qualities you'll attract the RIGHT woman, not just any woman. And if you don't attract the right woman, so be it, your life is excellent anyway.
I agree 100%

Everyone's problem can be resolved just by showing sosuaveness in their life...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Re: Re: ShortTimer

Originally posted by ShortTimer
That's becasue they are in the same realm as knowledge. Experience can be a path to knowledge and skill is a form of knowledge.

What I am saying is that even if two people have the exact same experiences they may come to radically different conclutions.
An infant learns to walk. What does he have to say? What is his conclusion?

"I can walk!" And he does.

!GEORGE GORDON!
 

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With all of this going on, in my opinion, after all is said and done in this topic, you all should be saying "I agree to disagree".

But I think some people here are arguing for argument's sake. No..nothing that was said here was revolutionary. I don't think eyes were opened or deep secrets were revealed. It was simply someone saying:

"In my opinion sosuave and techniques posted here are wrong!" Hahaha. What a trail blazer. *wipes tear*
And defending the point and arguing more about it just makes the circle go around. Nothing was learned because no one really listened.

But I'll say on one point about thinking and doing...

I'm sorry, but if we're going to be subbornly litteral here, i have a fact to share.

A competent human being cannot ACT without THINKING. Your brain still THINKS even in a impulsive situation. (Subconscious, anyone? Your subconscious isn't in your dick
or in your itchy trigger finger. The subconscious is in your...well you figure it out. ^_~ )

SOOO the point comes around again: I think, therefore I am. Thoughts LEAD to ACTION. You can think about something, but ultimately you wil ACT on those thoughts.

"Put your money where your mouth is"

"You can talk the walk, but can you walk the talk?"

And the infamous: "I think, therefore I AM"

I THINK!
I AM! DAMMIT!

Man, If you argue against this, i might have read your post all wrong...or you just might feel like aruging again...in which case i'm going to blow my brains out. And I think that Dr. P hits it right on the head. (Puerto Rican Lover) This site is to help, not hurt. You don't like it, there's not reason for you to be here.


Get the FUCK out.

But this is just my opinion. ^_~
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ThunderMaverick

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Oy vey. This thread is a year old.

*smacks forehead*
Me and my big mouth...
 
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