The honest truth about being a man

[CornbreadFed]

Value is not historical. It is measured in the present moment.

What you provided before is irrelevant. The only questions that matter are what are you producing now and does the evidence suggest you can produce more later.

Society does not reward past performance. It recalibrates expectations. High output raises the baseline. Eventually variance becomes failure not because you declined but because perfection was assumed.

This is why high value men often collapse under their own metrics. They are still human yet evaluated as constants. When deviation occurs punishment follows.

A man with room to grow maintains interest longer. Growth signals future value. Plateau signals decay. This is not emotional. It is statistical.

This is why the two worst things you can ever do in front of a woman is complain and relax.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Well not exactly ..... because women arent "the society".

Men do reward past performance, because men know what it takes to get **** done. There have been men worshipped by men for their past long after they started shytting their pants of old age.

And while a man totaly should strive to become a 1%er, there are also hundreds of millions of chicks out there, adoring dudes that are broke, criminals or in general guys that have clearly no capacity to provide anything then drama and/or misery.

If you put yourself into a treadmill for permanent growth over "society" (a(1) woman?), in desperation to keep her, you are fvcked and not in a good way. She will reek your desperation and heap ****tests on you like never before.

So, unless you are insecure about your own value to women, the correct approach is to stop giving a fvck what your woman thinks and tell her where the door is if she starts getting insecure about your value to her.

Its the old scarcity vs abundance mindset thing. If you act like a beggar that permanently has to prove himself to a(1) woman, dont be surprised when her pvssy dries up.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Well not exactly ..... because women arent "the society".

Unless you live in a country like Somalia, they basically run it.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Unless you live in a country like Somalia, they basically run it.

Only when weak men allow their microcosm/life to be run by a woman.

No wonder the west is going down the drains with a defeatist simp-mindset like that.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Only when weak men allow their microcosm/life to be run by a woman.

No wonder the west is going down the drains with a defeatist simp-mindset like that.

would you rather live in the west or Somalia though

 

[Manure Spherian]

relax.

We should not be on undue self-improvement hamster wheels or walking on egg shells for women.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

would you rather live in the west or Somalia though

Do you think its better to live in "the west" then in Somalia because women are "running society"/men let women run society?

From what i see here in Europe, there are allready areas that look pretty much like Somalia due to women voting for it. (running society?)

From what i hear lately its not a lot different in USA/Minnesota and the likes.

So, if you want to end up living in "Somalia" one day, just keep letting women have their way/run society.

 

[Aguirre]

The honest truth is that it is still better being a man than a woman, no matter what challenges or expectations. It's like winning the lottery every day.

 

[Gamisch]

Unless you live in a country like Somalia, they basically run it.

This a a disappointing take bruh.

I like your latest philosophical way of thinking, so don't take it as an attack. We're just sharing takes..

Women don't run shyte. WE run this. I get what you're saying tho..recently there was a case where a women worked at under armor who got fired. What baffled me was tye salary she made. She mad like 3x the average income for folding fecking clothes, and ofcourse was sick for a couple of months on top of that. I geuss thts kinda what you mean: there will ALWAYS be a simp on a a high position willing to spoil a hot woman for firing emails and shuffling papers, kinda defeating the idea behind " hard work pays off". But that does not mean she is running shyte.

By the way there are some incredibly hot women in Somalia. A combination of black and arab with the best features of both..

 

[jhonny9546]

It's the old scarcity vs. abundance mindset thing

The whole post can be summed up in one sentence: external validation and internal validation.

You have to choose the latter.
OP made a great point about how he thinks you should recalibrate yourself to the former.
In my opinion, that's completely wrong and doesn't lead to satisfaction.

Rather, build on your internal validation, and those who care about will show, and they won't care about anything else.