"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hello all...

I have been researching this for about 6 months and I want
to contribute this to the manosphere ;)



--> Human females are attracted to human males who
don't give a **** about what other people think about them <--

If human males can combine this attitude with no fear of approaching a lot of human females
I am confident that they can get laid 'a lot'.




I know this is not as easy as it sounds but I think this is what it boils down to.

Your opinion please!!! :cheer:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Johnny Alias

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The proof is in the pudding my friend... this working for you??? That's the more important question.
 

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Johnny Alias said:
The proof is in the pudding my friend... this working for you??? That's the more important question.
Hello thank you for the reply friend. You are right.. :)


Yes this is working. It is all in the human --> head <--.

If a human male does not give a ****... about rejection...
If a human male does not give a ****...about laughter...
If a human male does not give a ****...about 'anything'...

He becomes 'free'..

Thank you my friend....
Do you understand what I am saying? ;)
 

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zYou can't post something this broad.

If you really wish to have a discussion with other Djs you need to elaborate and articulate your ideal more.

Simply stating:

Not giving a fvck= B1tches

Is simply not much substance

As we all know, there's more to it than that.

If the formula was only this simple, none of us would be here.

And what's up with the arrows? LOL
 

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SmooveMooves said:
zYou can't post something this broad.

If you really wish to have a discussion with other Djs you need to elaborate and articulate your ideal more.

Simply stating:

Not giving a fvck= B1tches

Is simply not much substance

As we all know, there's more to it than that.

If the formula was only this simple, none of us would be here.

And what's up with the arrows? LOL
Hello.

Yes I would like to have a discussion with you --> sir(s) <--

Well I would like to disagree...

Maybe the formula is this simple.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You are basically saying they are attracted to bad boys which has been well known before the earth was created.

Everyone is attracted more to a leader than a follower, ya you have to elaborate a lot more on your point.
 

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if this was true then my uncle who sits on the couch drinking beers and smoking cigarettes all day would be swimming in pssy, they still have to find you physically attractive
 

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^you're splitting hairs here, but do you ever see those type of guys with women? The ones that boggle the mind on why she's attracted to him. I actually do see that sometimes.

Rep for the OP. You are correct sir, 100%.

In a nutshell: not giving a fvck shows strength. Emotional toughness.

It's someone these chicks, who are emotionally unstable for the most part, can attach themselves to. It's like the alcoholic attaching them self to a "normie". Someone who won't get $hit face wasted and will keep them out of trouble when they themselves get blacked out drunk.
 

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Not giving a f*ck + escalating + ACTUALLY GOING OUT IN THE FIELD = sex.

In my experience anyway.

The devil is in the details, but going out in the field and repeatedly getting rejected until you don't will teach you those details PLUS calibration.
 

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Let me elaborate a little...

As I said...'not giving a fvck' is easier said than done. I know this.

I think the biggest human taboo is the gargantuan social conditioning of human beings.

For one... male --> female relations.

Human males who act in total opposition (i.e. who don't give a fvck) to these particular social conventions concerning male --> female relations are somehow very attractive to females.

I know this because I am a human male recovering. Recovering from the massive damage done to males by social conditioning.
For one social conditioning regarding male/female relations.

The chemical reactions in our brain are not be laughed at.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hiper42 said:
Let me elaborate a little...

As I said...'not giving a fvck' is easier said than done. I know this.

I think the biggest human taboo is the gargantuan social conditioning of human beings.

For one... male --> female relations.

Human males who act in total opposition (i.e. who don't give a fvck) to these particular social conventions concerning male --> female relations are somehow naturally very attractive to females.

I know this because I am a human male recovering. Recovering from the massive damage done to males by social conditioning.
Social conditioning regarding male/female relations.

The chemical reactions in our brain are not be laughed at.
It is somewhat ironic that you create a thread about how not giving a f**k gets you laid only to later see you qualifying and explaining yourself as soon as someone questions your theory.

who cares what others think, right OP?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
It is somewhat ironic that you create a thread about how not giving a f**k gets you laid only to later see you qualifying and explaining yourself as soon as someone questions your theory.

who cares what others think, right OP?
elaborate

verb
verb: elaborate; 3rd person present: elaborates; past tense: elaborated; past participle: elaborated; gerund or present participle: elaborating
ɪˈlabəreɪt/

1.
develop or present (a theory, policy, or system) in further detail.


I think my previous post hit the nail on the head. :p
 

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hiper42 said:
elaborate

verb
verb: elaborate; 3rd person present: elaborates; past tense: elaborated; past participle: elaborated; gerund or present participle: elaborating
ɪˈlabəreɪt/

1.
develop or present (a theory, policy, or system) in further detail.

I think my previous post hit the nail on the head. :p
ok. although you clearly cared enough about other's opinions to create the thread and elaborate your position.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
although you clearly cared enough about other's opinions to create the thread and elaborate your position.
Incorrect.
I care about the fact that when human males were little boys
they were "little don juan's" and all natural towards females...
only (in many cases) to be socially conditioned into the opposite.
 

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hiper42 said:
Incorrect.
I care about the fact that when human males were little boys
they were "little don juan's" and all natural towards females...
only (in many cases) to be socially conditioned into the opposite.
ok. cool. :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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