"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hello all...

I have been researching this for about 6 months and I want
to contribute this to the manosphere ;)



--> Human females are attracted to human males who
don't give a **** about what other people think about them <--

If human males can combine this attitude with no fear of approaching a lot of human females
I am confident that they can get laid 'a lot'.




I know this is not as easy as it sounds but I think this is what it boils down to.

Your opinion please!!! :cheer:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Johnny Alias

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The proof is in the pudding my friend... this working for you??? That's the more important question.
 

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Johnny Alias said:
The proof is in the pudding my friend... this working for you??? That's the more important question.
Hello thank you for the reply friend. You are right.. :)


Yes this is working. It is all in the human --> head <--.

If a human male does not give a ****... about rejection...
If a human male does not give a ****...about laughter...
If a human male does not give a ****...about 'anything'...

He becomes 'free'..

Thank you my friend....
Do you understand what I am saying? ;)
 

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zYou can't post something this broad.

If you really wish to have a discussion with other Djs you need to elaborate and articulate your ideal more.

Simply stating:

Not giving a fvck= B1tches

Is simply not much substance

As we all know, there's more to it than that.

If the formula was only this simple, none of us would be here.

And what's up with the arrows? LOL
 

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SmooveMooves said:
zYou can't post something this broad.

If you really wish to have a discussion with other Djs you need to elaborate and articulate your ideal more.

Simply stating:

Not giving a fvck= B1tches

Is simply not much substance

As we all know, there's more to it than that.

If the formula was only this simple, none of us would be here.

And what's up with the arrows? LOL
Hello.

Yes I would like to have a discussion with you --> sir(s) <--

Well I would like to disagree...

Maybe the formula is this simple.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You are basically saying they are attracted to bad boys which has been well known before the earth was created.

Everyone is attracted more to a leader than a follower, ya you have to elaborate a lot more on your point.
 

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if this was true then my uncle who sits on the couch drinking beers and smoking cigarettes all day would be swimming in pssy, they still have to find you physically attractive
 

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^you're splitting hairs here, but do you ever see those type of guys with women? The ones that boggle the mind on why she's attracted to him. I actually do see that sometimes.

Rep for the OP. You are correct sir, 100%.

In a nutshell: not giving a fvck shows strength. Emotional toughness.

It's someone these chicks, who are emotionally unstable for the most part, can attach themselves to. It's like the alcoholic attaching them self to a "normie". Someone who won't get $hit face wasted and will keep them out of trouble when they themselves get blacked out drunk.
 

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Not giving a f*ck + escalating + ACTUALLY GOING OUT IN THE FIELD = sex.

In my experience anyway.

The devil is in the details, but going out in the field and repeatedly getting rejected until you don't will teach you those details PLUS calibration.
 

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Let me elaborate a little...

As I said...'not giving a fvck' is easier said than done. I know this.

I think the biggest human taboo is the gargantuan social conditioning of human beings.

For one... male --> female relations.

Human males who act in total opposition (i.e. who don't give a fvck) to these particular social conventions concerning male --> female relations are somehow very attractive to females.

I know this because I am a human male recovering. Recovering from the massive damage done to males by social conditioning.
For one social conditioning regarding male/female relations.

The chemical reactions in our brain are not be laughed at.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hiper42 said:
Let me elaborate a little...

As I said...'not giving a fvck' is easier said than done. I know this.

I think the biggest human taboo is the gargantuan social conditioning of human beings.

For one... male --> female relations.

Human males who act in total opposition (i.e. who don't give a fvck) to these particular social conventions concerning male --> female relations are somehow naturally very attractive to females.

I know this because I am a human male recovering. Recovering from the massive damage done to males by social conditioning.
Social conditioning regarding male/female relations.

The chemical reactions in our brain are not be laughed at.
It is somewhat ironic that you create a thread about how not giving a f**k gets you laid only to later see you qualifying and explaining yourself as soon as someone questions your theory.

who cares what others think, right OP?
 

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sylvester the cat said:
It is somewhat ironic that you create a thread about how not giving a f**k gets you laid only to later see you qualifying and explaining yourself as soon as someone questions your theory.

who cares what others think, right OP?
elaborate

verb
verb: elaborate; 3rd person present: elaborates; past tense: elaborated; past participle: elaborated; gerund or present participle: elaborating
ɪˈlabəreɪt/

1.
develop or present (a theory, policy, or system) in further detail.


I think my previous post hit the nail on the head. :p
 

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hiper42 said:
elaborate

verb
verb: elaborate; 3rd person present: elaborates; past tense: elaborated; past participle: elaborated; gerund or present participle: elaborating
ɪˈlabəreɪt/

1.
develop or present (a theory, policy, or system) in further detail.

I think my previous post hit the nail on the head. :p
ok. although you clearly cared enough about other's opinions to create the thread and elaborate your position.
 

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sylvester the cat said:
although you clearly cared enough about other's opinions to create the thread and elaborate your position.
Incorrect.
I care about the fact that when human males were little boys
they were "little don juan's" and all natural towards females...
only (in many cases) to be socially conditioned into the opposite.
 

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hiper42 said:
Incorrect.
I care about the fact that when human males were little boys
they were "little don juan's" and all natural towards females...
only (in many cases) to be socially conditioned into the opposite.
ok. cool. :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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