"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Hitlist

HeyPachuco!

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Is it a good idea to write a hitlist of all the women you want to hit/ get to know and date or does this distract you from the mission?

For instance, if you get a failure with one it may distract you from the actual goal for the others?

Normally if you write down all the goals you have for a week, month or year in your general life/ work - it makes things easier.

How do you guys feel this helps?

Also how good is "Car Game", I mean like pulling up to women or parked somewhere? how do you approach this way and how effective is it. Can't find a thread on "car game" - I dont mean in traffic btw.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HeyPachuco!

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Yeah same here,

I had a list of atleast 157 girls. Had there name down, age and location. Just needed the right enthusiasm to move on em.

I've lost that list and thinking about starting a new one. I do freestyles inbetween, but I like working towards something on a larger scale. Freestyles are still good.
 

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If you're stepping up your game then let it be universal, a f*cking rolodex isn't going to make you better, in fact it will just remind you of the ones you failed at.

Your ability is at its pinnacle when you can be standing in line at the DMV and bust a move on the girl behind the counter and get her number. Not the chick you've been starring at across the class for 2 months.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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