"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Hitlist

HeyPachuco!

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Is it a good idea to write a hitlist of all the women you want to hit/ get to know and date or does this distract you from the mission?

For instance, if you get a failure with one it may distract you from the actual goal for the others?

Normally if you write down all the goals you have for a week, month or year in your general life/ work - it makes things easier.

How do you guys feel this helps?

Also how good is "Car Game", I mean like pulling up to women or parked somewhere? how do you approach this way and how effective is it. Can't find a thread on "car game" - I dont mean in traffic btw.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HeyPachuco!

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Yeah same here,

I had a list of atleast 157 girls. Had there name down, age and location. Just needed the right enthusiasm to move on em.

I've lost that list and thinking about starting a new one. I do freestyles inbetween, but I like working towards something on a larger scale. Freestyles are still good.
 

Von_S

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If you're stepping up your game then let it be universal, a f*cking rolodex isn't going to make you better, in fact it will just remind you of the ones you failed at.

Your ability is at its pinnacle when you can be standing in line at the DMV and bust a move on the girl behind the counter and get her number. Not the chick you've been starring at across the class for 2 months.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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