"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Happy Boat.

CLOONEY

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Man, have u guys ever noticed it is ALWAYS the same people posting in the Tips Forum, all their inspirational advice. They are like a bunch of philosophers floating around in the happy boat, seriously they need to get out of their fantasy lands and get real.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Say what?

The tips section is by far the most beneficial part of sosuave.com. The knowledge shared in the tips section is concrete and applicable.

The discussion section isn't bad, but you won't find nearly as much inspiring or practical material. For example, you won't find anbody posting about how they hate the people floating in the "happy boat" in the tips section.

What's it to you if the posts in Tips are inspirational and positive? That's a good thing in my book. Explain your beef, dude. Right now you sound like you're peeved at the people who want to improve their "inner game" through borderline-philosophical, inspirational posts.
 

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Originally posted by Duke
Say what?



What's it to you if the posts in Tips are inspirational and positive? Right now you sound like you're peeved at the people who want to improve their "inner game" through borderline-philosophical, inspirational posts.
This is my "beef". You are all improving your "inner game", you sit there and feel warm and fuzzy for a couple of days after reading what you consider "inspirational", and then you do NOTHING about it. Some of the tips are absolute CRAP, TRASH!! The people in the disucssion forum are the ones who are ACTUALLY out there doing it, not the ones who are philosophying about it!! Most of the guys who write the tips are good with words but have NO IDEA how to put it into practice. Have you ever seen a TRUE DJ who writes philosophy about picking up chicks? or who is having the most fun in life? I havent, the people who are having fun and getting the girls are the ones who dont think about EVERY ASPECT of the game or life, they are the ones who are simply out there and who are actually getting some puss.
 
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You both make good points -I don't know whose side to take:confused: I'll just straddle the fence!
 
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