Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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the "hair preen" - IOI or just a natural response?

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You know that thing girls do with their hair when they move it behind their ear to make themselves appear more attractive - is this an IOI or just something they do around guys in general? I've been noticing this a lot more lately and I'm wondering if I'm passing up even more opportunities to open ...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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md3sign said:
You know that thing girls do with their hair when they move it behind their ear to make themselves appear more attractive - is this an IOI or just something they do around guys in general? I've been noticing this a lot more lately and I'm wondering if I'm passing up even more opportunities to open ...
It can be both. I reckon the large majority of women do it around all males, so I usually don't read too much into it. However, if it's one on one and all the other signs are there like good eye contact, trained attention, good BL then it probably can be reinterpreted in this context as an IOI.
 

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Well yea 1 on 1 I realize this and I've been on dates with girls where they do it nonstop, almost like a twitch, but I just meant in general when you end up next to a stranger somewhere or pass them by on the street.
 

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md3sign said:
Well yea 1 on 1 I realize this and I've been on dates with girls where they do it nonstop, almost like a twitch, but I just meant in general when you end up next to a stranger somewhere or pass them by on the street.
I wouldn't even think twice about that,their hair could just be in their view of sight and they are just repositioning it or something along those lines. I wouldn't overlook it if you are on a date and you two are having a great time,eye contact,kino and all.
 
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