"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the "hair preen" - IOI or just a natural response?

md3sign

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You know that thing girls do with their hair when they move it behind their ear to make themselves appear more attractive - is this an IOI or just something they do around guys in general? I've been noticing this a lot more lately and I'm wondering if I'm passing up even more opportunities to open ...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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md3sign said:
You know that thing girls do with their hair when they move it behind their ear to make themselves appear more attractive - is this an IOI or just something they do around guys in general? I've been noticing this a lot more lately and I'm wondering if I'm passing up even more opportunities to open ...
It can be both. I reckon the large majority of women do it around all males, so I usually don't read too much into it. However, if it's one on one and all the other signs are there like good eye contact, trained attention, good BL then it probably can be reinterpreted in this context as an IOI.
 

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Well yea 1 on 1 I realize this and I've been on dates with girls where they do it nonstop, almost like a twitch, but I just meant in general when you end up next to a stranger somewhere or pass them by on the street.
 

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md3sign said:
Well yea 1 on 1 I realize this and I've been on dates with girls where they do it nonstop, almost like a twitch, but I just meant in general when you end up next to a stranger somewhere or pass them by on the street.
I wouldn't even think twice about that,their hair could just be in their view of sight and they are just repositioning it or something along those lines. I wouldn't overlook it if you are on a date and you two are having a great time,eye contact,kino and all.
 
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