"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The guy who composed a "brazilian funk" music

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I had a date with a girl and she was telling me about her sexy friend, she showed me some pics and some videos of that friend dancing (showing her ass)... Ok until there. Then she told me this girl has a lot of guys sending direct messages (oh really!!!), and then showed me some screenshots they share on a group about those guys.

THEN... She showed me a audio of a guy who started to sing a brazilian funk music that he said that composed to this girl (he sent a 3 min audio to her friend). I listened to that, and this definitely surprised me. It was the most desperate and stupid thing I ever saw in my life. I don't know if that guy was serious, but damn... How can a person do that?

This guy didnt even know how to sing. I already hate brazilian funk... But this guy, made me realize that brazilian funk was not that bad as listening to him singing it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Beta simps will do pretty much anything once they fall under the spell of a beauty. Behaviours will range from singing, dancing, poems, joining yoga classes, to all-out stalking.

It all starts in pre-school with little boys offering their lunch apples to the class beauties. I used to give my apple and crayons to little Merilyn until I realised her bag was full of other boys’ offerings. 35 years later Merilyn is washed up, divorced and with a bunch of kids.
 

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I had a date with a girl and she was telling me about her sexy friend, she showed me some pics and some videos of that friend dancing (showing her ass)... Ok until there. Then she told me this girl has a lot of guys sending direct messages (oh really!!!), and then showed me some screenshots they share on a group about those guys.

THEN... She showed me a audio of a guy who started to sing a brazilian funk music that he said that composed to this girl (he sent a 3 min audio to her friend). I listened to that, and this definitely surprised me. It was the most desperate and stupid thing I ever saw in my life. I don't know if that guy was serious, but damn... How can a person do that?

This guy didnt even know how to sing. I already hate brazilian funk... But this guy, made me realize that brazilian funk was not that bad as listening to him singing it.
Women have been the downfall of men from before christ. Women have also INSPIRED men since before christ.
 

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Women have been the downfall of men from before christ. Women have also INSPIRED men since before christ.
Women bring out the best and worst in us.
Thats why most manly sports (football, basketball etc) have cheerleader groups. The presence of fine dimes in skimpy outfits will motivate a man to give his very best!
 

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Women have been the downfall of men from before christ. Women have also INSPIRED men since before christ.
FACTS....I have to acknowledge that they are our muse. Nothing is more motivating then meeting a beautiful girl and realizing that you need to get your stuff together. That will motivate you to make more money, get in better shape etc. What nourishes us also destroys us. Now they dont even nourish so....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FACTS....I have to acknowledge that they are our muse. Nothing is more motivating then meeting a beautiful girl and realizing that you need to get your stuff together. That will motivate you to make more money, get in better shape etc. What nourishes us also destroys us. Now they dont even nourish so....
LOL. They took away the "nourishing".... Maybe if you search a less "fine" or less "desired" chick.... But then again, entitled land whales and entitled not even good looking folks.
 

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I had a date with a girl and she was telling me about her sexy friend, she showed me some pics and some videos of that friend dancing (showing her ass)... Ok until there. Then she told me this girl has a lot of guys sending direct messages (oh really!!!), and then showed me some screenshots they share on a group about those guys.

THEN... She showed me a audio of a guy who started to sing a brazilian funk music that he said that composed to this girl (he sent a 3 min audio to her friend). I listened to that, and this definitely surprised me. It was the most desperate and stupid thing I ever saw in my life. I don't know if that guy was serious, but damn... How can a person do that?

This guy didnt even know how to sing. I already hate brazilian funk... But this guy, made me realize that brazilian funk was not that bad as listening to him singing it.
Hilarious. This is just like the guy from my post:

It really makes you wonder if these guys ACTUALLY think this sh!t will work...
 

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Hilarious. This is just like the guy from my post:

It really makes you wonder if these guys ACTUALLY think this sh!t will work...
I had a cousin that he used to send romantic poems to all the girls he kissed. He created some poems and sent them saying that he had created them especially for that girl.

There were two or three of these girls who came to me and told me what he did. They even showed me the messages he sent to them.

At the time, I still defended him when they spoke badly of him. But then I found out that he was talking badly about me behind my back. With women he was staying with and women I was staying with. I found this out about a girl he took to my house once, she told me that she couldn't stand his falsehood, he spoke well of me when I was close and then gossiped about me when I was not around. As it was more than 1 person who told me this, I moved away from him.

And after that, this girl hit on me on my instagram saying that she liked me, I had sex with this girl he stayed with. When he found out, he kept posting things about betrayal on his Facebook. As if they were indirect to me. This is how the spell turns against the sorcerer.

I don't usually feel sorry for men like that ... Because this type of person is so desperate that he is able to stab you in the back just to try to take advantage.
 

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I had a cousin that he used to send romantic poems to all the girls he kissed. He created some poems and sent them saying that he had created them especially for that girl.

There were two or three of these girls who came to me and told me what he did. They even showed me the messages he sent to them.

At the time, I still defended him when they spoke badly of him. But then I found out that he was talking badly about me behind my back. With women he was staying with and women I was staying with. I found this out about a girl he took to my house once, she told me that she couldn't stand his falsehood, he spoke well of me when I was close and then gossiped about me when I was not around. As it was more than 1 person who told me this, I moved away from him.

And after that, this girl hit on me on my instagram saying that she liked me, I had sex with this girl he stayed with. When he found out, he kept posting things about betrayal on his Facebook. As if they were indirect to me. This is how the spell turns against the sorcerer.

I don't usually feel sorry for men like that ... Because this type of person is so desperate that he is able to stab you in the back just to try to take advantage.
IMO you were just proving how alpha you were, and that demonstrates how beta he is. Good for you man!
 

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IMO you were just proving how alpha you were, and that demonstrates how beta he is. Good for you man!
Thanks man!

In that case yes... He had a very stupid attitude. But I heard more stories after that... He doesn't care about friendships... He just do everything that will please him, even if he have to fck up with someone.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks man!

In that case yes... He had a very stupid attitude. But I heard more stories after that... He doesn't care about friendships... He just do everything that will please him, even if he have to fck up with someone.
That narcissistic "do whatever makes you happy "?
 

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That narcissistic "do whatever makes you happy "?
Yes, and in that case lying and being false to take advantage.

When I was around, he always made compliment about me, act as he was my best friend... Until I turn my back to him.
 
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