"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AFC's play and cheat on women !!!

A real dJ tells the women he's dating that he is dating many other women to keep his options open.

From there you can keep cycling through new women and ditch the ones you don't like to hang out with, or pick one and be with her till things go sour and then you restart the cycle again. (no second chances lifes too short to cry over spilled milk)

Me I like to date around let it be made clear that I will not be bound to any women, till now I havnt found a women that takes my fancy and most get boring after a few months.

Meanwhile I'm getting educated learning a new type of combat and entering into a body building compitition.

Get it women does not = the main aspect of your life.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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typical said:
AFC's play and cheat on women !!!

A real dJ tells the women he's dating that he is dating many other women to keep his options open.

From there you can keep cycling through new women and ditch the ones you don't like to hang out with, or pick one and be with her till things go sour and then you restart the cycle again. (no second chances lifes too short to cry over spilled milk)

Me I like to date around let it be made clear that I will not be bound to any women, till now I havnt found a women that takes my fancy and most get boring after a few months.

Meanwhile I'm getting educated learning a new type of combat and entering into a body building compitition.

Get it women does not = the main aspect of your life.
Have you stoped to consider that maybe some guys have grown immune to the other qualities of a woman by getting stuck on the sexual part of a woman. That when they start looking for something real even. Even when it's there they can't see it or feel it. The sad thing is that they think the problem is with the women not knowing it lies within.
Example: a friend of mine had a wife who wass there for him bla bla... he talked to me like he was the man. He knew all it had to get women etc. He was cheating on his wife, talking down to her. Well, yesterday she left him and I hear he's pretty sad and yet he can't (maybe doesn't know how to) step out of himself and talk to us his guy friends about what he's going true. Well, the shocker for me is that since this guy is hurting I bet despite playing the field he's finally realized that he's not that hardcore not to feel the hurt of someone who's supposed to love you and who you're supposed to love leave you.
 

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typical said:
AFC's play and cheat on women !!!

A real dJ tells the women he's dating that he is dating many other women to keep his options open.

From there you can keep cycling through new women and ditch the ones you don't like to hang out with, or pick one and be with her till things go sour and then you restart the cycle again. (no second chances lifes too short to cry over spilled milk)

Me I like to date around let it be made clear that I will not be bound to any women, till now I havnt found a women that takes my fancy and most get boring after a few months.

Meanwhile I'm getting educated learning a new type of combat and entering into a body building compitition.

Get it women does not = the main aspect of your life.
Have you stoped to consider that maybe some guys have grown immune to the other qualities of a woman by getting stuck on the sexual part of a woman. That when they start looking for something real even. Even when it's there they can't see it or feel it. The sad thing is that they think the problem is with the women not knowing it lies within.
Example: a friend of mine had a wife who wass there for him bla bla... he talked to me like he was the man. He knew all it had to get women etc. He was cheating on his wife, talking down to her. Well, yesterday she left him and I hear he's pretty sad and yet he can't (maybe doesn't know how to) step out of himself and talk to us his guy friends about what he's going true. Well, the shocker for me is that since this guy is hurting I bet despite playing the field he's finally realized that he's not that hardcore not to feel the hurt of someone who's supposed to love you and who you're supposed to love leave you.
 

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Like I said cheating is for losers and afc's playing the field with women that know that they are not the only one is not easy but not that hard either.

If you manage to weed out one lady from all the boring/crazy/weird ones I hope to hell this website and your real life experience has taught you enough to create a relationship built on trust and giving and equality and not "I used to be the man so I can do whatever I want" mentality flowing around.

Your mate (sad but true) had it coming to him, and its one of the reasons why I reckon guys shouldn't get married before 30 or even 35 cause the urge to go bang other ladies is too high and you don't really want to commit to a lasting relationship as your life and goals are too hectic.
 

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typical said:
Like I said cheating is for losers and afc's playing the field with women that know that they are not the only one is not easy but not that hard either.

If you manage to weed out one lady from all the boring/crazy/weird ones I hope to hell this website and your real life experience has taught you enough to create a relationship built on trust and giving and equality and not "I used to be the man so I can do whatever I want" mentality flowing around.

Your mate (sad but true) had it coming to him, and its one of the reasons why I reckon guys shouldn't get married before 30 or even 35 cause the urge to go bang other ladies is too high and you don't really want to commit to a lasting relationship as your life and goals are too hectic.
I agree with you. My friend is 24 this year and got married 3 years ago. I think he did it for the papers. Anyway, I wouldn't say his wife was hot or exciting but she was a sweet heart. He shouldn't have been married to her if he was looking for more fun filled personality.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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