"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AFC's play and cheat on women !!!

A real dJ tells the women he's dating that he is dating many other women to keep his options open.

From there you can keep cycling through new women and ditch the ones you don't like to hang out with, or pick one and be with her till things go sour and then you restart the cycle again. (no second chances lifes too short to cry over spilled milk)

Me I like to date around let it be made clear that I will not be bound to any women, till now I havnt found a women that takes my fancy and most get boring after a few months.

Meanwhile I'm getting educated learning a new type of combat and entering into a body building compitition.

Get it women does not = the main aspect of your life.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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typical said:
AFC's play and cheat on women !!!

A real dJ tells the women he's dating that he is dating many other women to keep his options open.

From there you can keep cycling through new women and ditch the ones you don't like to hang out with, or pick one and be with her till things go sour and then you restart the cycle again. (no second chances lifes too short to cry over spilled milk)

Me I like to date around let it be made clear that I will not be bound to any women, till now I havnt found a women that takes my fancy and most get boring after a few months.

Meanwhile I'm getting educated learning a new type of combat and entering into a body building compitition.

Get it women does not = the main aspect of your life.
Have you stoped to consider that maybe some guys have grown immune to the other qualities of a woman by getting stuck on the sexual part of a woman. That when they start looking for something real even. Even when it's there they can't see it or feel it. The sad thing is that they think the problem is with the women not knowing it lies within.
Example: a friend of mine had a wife who wass there for him bla bla... he talked to me like he was the man. He knew all it had to get women etc. He was cheating on his wife, talking down to her. Well, yesterday she left him and I hear he's pretty sad and yet he can't (maybe doesn't know how to) step out of himself and talk to us his guy friends about what he's going true. Well, the shocker for me is that since this guy is hurting I bet despite playing the field he's finally realized that he's not that hardcore not to feel the hurt of someone who's supposed to love you and who you're supposed to love leave you.
 

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typical said:
AFC's play and cheat on women !!!

A real dJ tells the women he's dating that he is dating many other women to keep his options open.

From there you can keep cycling through new women and ditch the ones you don't like to hang out with, or pick one and be with her till things go sour and then you restart the cycle again. (no second chances lifes too short to cry over spilled milk)

Me I like to date around let it be made clear that I will not be bound to any women, till now I havnt found a women that takes my fancy and most get boring after a few months.

Meanwhile I'm getting educated learning a new type of combat and entering into a body building compitition.

Get it women does not = the main aspect of your life.
Have you stoped to consider that maybe some guys have grown immune to the other qualities of a woman by getting stuck on the sexual part of a woman. That when they start looking for something real even. Even when it's there they can't see it or feel it. The sad thing is that they think the problem is with the women not knowing it lies within.
Example: a friend of mine had a wife who wass there for him bla bla... he talked to me like he was the man. He knew all it had to get women etc. He was cheating on his wife, talking down to her. Well, yesterday she left him and I hear he's pretty sad and yet he can't (maybe doesn't know how to) step out of himself and talk to us his guy friends about what he's going true. Well, the shocker for me is that since this guy is hurting I bet despite playing the field he's finally realized that he's not that hardcore not to feel the hurt of someone who's supposed to love you and who you're supposed to love leave you.
 

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Like I said cheating is for losers and afc's playing the field with women that know that they are not the only one is not easy but not that hard either.

If you manage to weed out one lady from all the boring/crazy/weird ones I hope to hell this website and your real life experience has taught you enough to create a relationship built on trust and giving and equality and not "I used to be the man so I can do whatever I want" mentality flowing around.

Your mate (sad but true) had it coming to him, and its one of the reasons why I reckon guys shouldn't get married before 30 or even 35 cause the urge to go bang other ladies is too high and you don't really want to commit to a lasting relationship as your life and goals are too hectic.
 

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typical said:
Like I said cheating is for losers and afc's playing the field with women that know that they are not the only one is not easy but not that hard either.

If you manage to weed out one lady from all the boring/crazy/weird ones I hope to hell this website and your real life experience has taught you enough to create a relationship built on trust and giving and equality and not "I used to be the man so I can do whatever I want" mentality flowing around.

Your mate (sad but true) had it coming to him, and its one of the reasons why I reckon guys shouldn't get married before 30 or even 35 cause the urge to go bang other ladies is too high and you don't really want to commit to a lasting relationship as your life and goals are too hectic.
I agree with you. My friend is 24 this year and got married 3 years ago. I think he did it for the papers. Anyway, I wouldn't say his wife was hot or exciting but she was a sweet heart. He shouldn't have been married to her if he was looking for more fun filled personality.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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