"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The group types that frequent this site

tmpgstx

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I think there are variety of people on this site:

- The Virgins

No experience with women what so ever, and very afraid of women. Looking to make that first 'score'.

- The Geeks

Some are virgins and some aren't. This group has little to no social contacts with women for whatever reasons. Not being in social circles, no sports, job mainly male dominated etc. (I'm in this group by the way - not a virgin either!).

- The Players

Looking for tips on improving their 'game' but always frustrated thay end up with the 'party' girl all their buddies have had a time or two. Often turned down by the 'good girl' they can never seem to get

- The Experienced

I also am in this category (you can belong to more than one). This group has been in both LTRs and have had one-night encounters. I can tell by the way people post who these guys are, right Albion?

- The Wannabes

The guy who got laid once, but was by some freak accident. He's not sure how it happened and if it ever will again. He's looking to 'score' that second time.

- The introverts

The guys in this group don't get out at all, other than to work and groceries. They maybe get laid every 4-5 years and that's pushing it. They often feel women aren't worth pursuing because the majority are fvcked up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
I think there are variety of people on this site:

- The Virgins

No experience with women what so ever, and very afraid of women. Looking to make that first 'score'.

- The Geeks

Some are virgins and some aren't. This group has little to no social contacts with women for whatever reasons. Not being in social circles, no sports, job mainly male dominated etc. (I'm in this group by the way - not a virgin either!).

- The Players

Looking for tips on improving their 'game' but always frustrated thay end up with the 'party' girl all their buddies have had a time or two. Often turned down by the 'good girl' they can never seem to get

- The Experienced

I also am in this category (you can belong to more than one). This group has been in both LTRs and have had one-night encounters. I can tell by the way people post who these guys are, right Albion?

- The Wannabes

The guy who got laid once, but was by some freak accident. He's not sure how it happened and if it ever will again. He's looking to 'score' that second time.

- The introverts

The guys in this group don't get out at all, other than to work and groceries. They maybe get laid every 4-5 years and that's pushing it. They often feel women aren't worth pursuing because the majority are fvcked up.
Haha! I like how you set us all up into groups! But how's this a tip? ;)

I fall into every category except "The Virgins" hahahaha
 

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I fall into the first, but atm i havnt even tried this player stuff for real. Asin i have done 0 cold approaches with the intention of picking her up and ****ing her.:eek:
 

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The Introverts - The guys in this group don't get out at all, other than to work and groceries. They maybe get laid every 4-5 years and that's pushing it. They often feel women aren't worth pursuing because the majority are fvcked up.
I know someone exactly like this. Pathetic life, have no sympothy.
 

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i fall in to the catogrey that is not getting anywhere because i set my standards so high i barley met 2 girls in my life that i could consider relationship matireal and even those where not completly what i wanted! oh well what can i do im a perfectionist when it comes to certain things.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You forgot people that make useless tips who help no-one :rolleyes:


How does this help ANYONE? Making generalisations about the site does not help me get girls, believe it or not. All you did was label people and stick them in groups. Whoop di fvcking doo

I am a virgin but I am experienced with women, I know tricks, I know things you probably haven't even thought of yet. I understand logic and that how good you are with women isn't measured by the notches on your bedposts...

Seriously go make your posts relevant to SOMETHING and then come back and post
 

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i despise this "tip"
 

tmpgstx

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This was meant to be originally posted in discussion which i did do. I wish you could delete your own topics, that's why this is still in this section.

I'll often have two browsers open - one with discussion, and one with tips - so went to post in wrong one - easy to do when you a million windows open ... so lighten up a bit. This post wasn't meant to offend anyone, just an interesting analyzation.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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