"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The greatest tool: I will walk away

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This hot chick who had a very high interest level in me suddenly started playing her cute little games. She had never done that before. So I pondered as to what had gone wrong .... and I realized .... just a few days ago I had told her that "This relationship means a lot to me". I think she figured out that I would do everything to stay with her. So.... one fine day when she was complaining about our relationship, I told her : "I think we should break this up right now and go our ways."
That did it. She was completely taken aback. She requested me to not break up. She called me up the next night at 1:00 am and started telling me that she was feeling lonely. That she was feeling ugly! WOW! Now she is always after me. She calls me up all the time and requests dates! That is what I wanted all along. We all give great value to things that we know we may never be able to acheive. Everything acheivable is boring. Once u become unacheivable you become exciting. You become a real MAN. You will be pursued. And the best of all ..... Any day, you will walk away with your head held high and no heartache.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dealing with crazy people is playing with fire man. Be careful.

Yeah it´s cool to have a chick after you like this. But you start to really get attached, and before you know it, you need her, and are kind of crazy as she is.

I´d advice you to keep this going on, but to keep in mind what I said so you don´t get attached.
 

Jariel

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Thanks for sharing that experience. Yes it does happen this way and I've seen it so many times for myself.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes

Ity is kind of insane ... but it is true for all of us. We are crazy enough to think that something that is more difficult to acheive is better than something that comes easily!
 

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Ye man, thats some serious anti dump reality for her :)
 

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yea ur definitely rite man

u'd think one comment wouldnt hurt, but u say one thing and the girl will appreciate it.. in that moment. but shes really thinking "ive got him" and they stop trying

its not bcoz shes a *****, its human nature for them. if they got u, they wont chase u
 

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Yeah .... if they have got you, they will not chase you. It doesnt matter how good you are. It really does not. All that matters is how difficult you are to get. So, my dear players if you want to last longer, play hard to get. Thats all. Thats the greatest thing you can do for your relationship. Dont make it easy for her. Make her suffer. Make her long for you. Make her twist and turn at nights. Make her wait. Give her sleepless nights. Let her know that one day you will walk away! She will love you for that ..... and only that!! Treat her like she is nothing special. Treat her like she means nothing to you. And she will run after you.

In ********:
Difficult to get === Masculine
Easy to get ===== Wimpy

STUPID, CRAZY ********!!!!
STUPID, CRAZY WOMEN!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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