Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Grand Unified Theory of PU

From the following PUA, whose style do you most consistently try to emulate into your

  • Mystery

    Votes: 8 28.6%
  • Tyler D.

    Votes: 2 7.1%
  • Gunwitch

    Votes: 5 17.9%
  • David D.

    Votes: 10 35.7%
  • Ross Jeffries

    Votes: 1 3.6%
  • Juggler

    Votes: 9 32.1%
  • Swinggcat

    Votes: 1 3.6%
  • other

    Votes: 6 21.4%

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    28

Bigworm

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From the following PUA, whose style do you most consistently try to emulate into your game:
  • Style
  • Swinggcat
  • Juggler
  • Gunwitch
  • David D.
  • Ross Jeffries
  • Mystery
  • Tyler D.

My idea is that one day someone get all the different forms of PU to be assembled into one, in order to fit a variety of different situations.
Right now direct, indirect and natural game all have their strengths and weakness, but that together should cover everything. I got the idea for GUTP from physics, not that im geek or anything, but scientists right now are coming up with a theory that encompasses the four basic forces of the universe gravity, electromagnetic, strong and weak force.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ethnomethodologist

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Simple vs Dynamic

I choose 'social dynamics'
 

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im guessing no one follow Ross J. especially after reading the Game -- the guy sounds like hypnotizing sexual predator. anyway is their any PUA that you think should be on the list.
 

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I wonder what commission a website gets from directing people to DD's letters. I wonder what commission they get if a part of his series is purchased immediately.

I wonder how much that freaking advertising campaign gets. You know the one I'm talkking about. More than half the damned 'seduction' websites out there are marketed the EXACT same freaking way.

DD is going to come out on top, followed by Mystery, close third for tyler and swingcat, ross jeffries will come trailing. If this continues, Juggler and Gunwitch will lie on the base of the pyramid.

Style is the *wildcard*
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am actually trying to mix all the gurus ideas into one and take the best stuff that they teach.

Currently I follow Mystery and TD. Another group that I'm starting to learn about that haven't been talked about much is woodhaven and dimitri, they were both in the book "The Game"
 

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DYD is awesome for developing killer inner game- when i advance, i will definetly move on to the mastering the Mystery method and then eventually move on to Speed Seduction to use during isolation...TD also has priceless insight on the social dynamics of the pick up , but theres not really anything in terms of direct game that i have seen so far
 

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I can't say...

that I emulate anyone's style but I do study DYD, Juggler (CSI), and Mystery Method to help formulate my own style of game. Plus DJ Bible of course!

I must add this. After studying all these methods it took the "hands-on" demands of this forum before it all started coming together. And it is!

I'm sure alot of people study many different methods, but getting in the field is what really forces yourself to see how the methods work with your personality.
No player is going to use body rocking the same, or even use body language the same. Simply getting the material of a method "out". .. isn't going to work. You have to use it in the field as if you came up with it yourself. It's something thats natural!

Thats what I think we have to keep in mind when studying all these great methods.

Mez
 

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im suprised not more plp voted for Swinggcat hes my favorite PUA. You guys should check out his book Real World Seduction. It seriously is incredible because it describes how to attain prizability (or value) which you need in order to even carry out some of these other routines plp do. I think a PUA i should have included but didnt was Senior Fingers -- he is the S**t.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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