"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Grand Unified Theory of PU

From the following PUA, whose style do you most consistently try to emulate into your

  • Mystery

    Votes: 8 28.6%
  • Tyler D.

    Votes: 2 7.1%
  • Gunwitch

    Votes: 5 17.9%
  • David D.

    Votes: 10 35.7%
  • Ross Jeffries

    Votes: 1 3.6%
  • Juggler

    Votes: 9 32.1%
  • Swinggcat

    Votes: 1 3.6%
  • other

    Votes: 6 21.4%

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Bigworm

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From the following PUA, whose style do you most consistently try to emulate into your game:
  • Style
  • Swinggcat
  • Juggler
  • Gunwitch
  • David D.
  • Ross Jeffries
  • Mystery
  • Tyler D.

My idea is that one day someone get all the different forms of PU to be assembled into one, in order to fit a variety of different situations.
Right now direct, indirect and natural game all have their strengths and weakness, but that together should cover everything. I got the idea for GUTP from physics, not that im geek or anything, but scientists right now are coming up with a theory that encompasses the four basic forces of the universe gravity, electromagnetic, strong and weak force.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ethnomethodologist

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Simple vs Dynamic

I choose 'social dynamics'
 

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im guessing no one follow Ross J. especially after reading the Game -- the guy sounds like hypnotizing sexual predator. anyway is their any PUA that you think should be on the list.
 

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I wonder what commission a website gets from directing people to DD's letters. I wonder what commission they get if a part of his series is purchased immediately.

I wonder how much that freaking advertising campaign gets. You know the one I'm talkking about. More than half the damned 'seduction' websites out there are marketed the EXACT same freaking way.

DD is going to come out on top, followed by Mystery, close third for tyler and swingcat, ross jeffries will come trailing. If this continues, Juggler and Gunwitch will lie on the base of the pyramid.

Style is the *wildcard*
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am actually trying to mix all the gurus ideas into one and take the best stuff that they teach.

Currently I follow Mystery and TD. Another group that I'm starting to learn about that haven't been talked about much is woodhaven and dimitri, they were both in the book "The Game"
 

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DYD is awesome for developing killer inner game- when i advance, i will definetly move on to the mastering the Mystery method and then eventually move on to Speed Seduction to use during isolation...TD also has priceless insight on the social dynamics of the pick up , but theres not really anything in terms of direct game that i have seen so far
 

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I can't say...

that I emulate anyone's style but I do study DYD, Juggler (CSI), and Mystery Method to help formulate my own style of game. Plus DJ Bible of course!

I must add this. After studying all these methods it took the "hands-on" demands of this forum before it all started coming together. And it is!

I'm sure alot of people study many different methods, but getting in the field is what really forces yourself to see how the methods work with your personality.
No player is going to use body rocking the same, or even use body language the same. Simply getting the material of a method "out". .. isn't going to work. You have to use it in the field as if you came up with it yourself. It's something thats natural!

Thats what I think we have to keep in mind when studying all these great methods.

Mez
 

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im suprised not more plp voted for Swinggcat hes my favorite PUA. You guys should check out his book Real World Seduction. It seriously is incredible because it describes how to attain prizability (or value) which you need in order to even carry out some of these other routines plp do. I think a PUA i should have included but didnt was Senior Fingers -- he is the S**t.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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